Ok, i hesitated to post this, i looked for similar threads but i came up dry...so if anyone knows of something similar put a link in here....
my girlfriend of the past 9 years has yet to cum from regular sex...we were very young when we got to together, it was jr year of highschool. we had no sexual experiences outside eachother, we were together for about 6 months before we tried oral(successful orgasms all round), and a year before we tried sex. She worried a lot because of her catholic background, she had negative feelings and guilt for a long time (i think she still does)woried about getting kocked up too... and i always cause her pain with sex unless their is a vibrator directly on her clit the whole time...i have to wear a vibrating cock ring every time we have sex or she wont even enjoy it! and not just the trojan mini things, we have to take a corded (2AAbattery) vibrating egg and combine it with a ring that will hold it, or she has to use a hitachi while we do it...
This makes me feel like shit. I feel like their is something wrong with me or im not attractive enough to her, or maybe she has something wrong with her...(im a 5'7" 190lb nerd/pervert that works retail at age 25..) im always tired and always horny...
I feel like my life would be unfulfiled if i hadnt had a woman orgasm from just me!
Im not huge by this forums standards, im 7.5" x 5.5" but she actually bleeds after just about each time we have sex, the gyno found out she has a polyp on her cervix that they wont operate on because it could risk infirtility... so between periods if she wants sex she has to think about if she wants to bleed or not....
on top of all that all of our highschool friends are getting engaged/married and im thinkin we havent been with anyone else... what if...what if...etc.. i told her before i buy her a ring i want a all me orgasm(i wasnt really serious at the time but now i want one!)
maybe im just a jackass who is taking her feelings for granted...
this is all i can think about lately and i've been dealing with the depression by logicaly thinking it through step by step, contimplating what couse would be best for both of us...im almost in tears as i type this but i think that if we broke up it might be for the best, but every time i see her that feeling disapears...
if anyone has had a similar experience and did something that worked out for them please let me know how it went...
my girlfriend of the past 9 years has yet to cum from regular sex...we were very young when we got to together, it was jr year of highschool. we had no sexual experiences outside eachother, we were together for about 6 months before we tried oral(successful orgasms all round), and a year before we tried sex. She worried a lot because of her catholic background, she had negative feelings and guilt for a long time (i think she still does)woried about getting kocked up too... and i always cause her pain with sex unless their is a vibrator directly on her clit the whole time...i have to wear a vibrating cock ring every time we have sex or she wont even enjoy it! and not just the trojan mini things, we have to take a corded (2AAbattery) vibrating egg and combine it with a ring that will hold it, or she has to use a hitachi while we do it...
This makes me feel like shit. I feel like their is something wrong with me or im not attractive enough to her, or maybe she has something wrong with her...(im a 5'7" 190lb nerd/pervert that works retail at age 25..) im always tired and always horny...
I feel like my life would be unfulfiled if i hadnt had a woman orgasm from just me!
Im not huge by this forums standards, im 7.5" x 5.5" but she actually bleeds after just about each time we have sex, the gyno found out she has a polyp on her cervix that they wont operate on because it could risk infirtility... so between periods if she wants sex she has to think about if she wants to bleed or not....
on top of all that all of our highschool friends are getting engaged/married and im thinkin we havent been with anyone else... what if...what if...etc.. i told her before i buy her a ring i want a all me orgasm(i wasnt really serious at the time but now i want one!)
maybe im just a jackass who is taking her feelings for granted...
this is all i can think about lately and i've been dealing with the depression by logicaly thinking it through step by step, contimplating what couse would be best for both of us...im almost in tears as i type this but i think that if we broke up it might be for the best, but every time i see her that feeling disapears...
if anyone has had a similar experience and did something that worked out for them please let me know how it went...