she wont cum from sex!

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Let me add this: a woman's cock is her clitirus , she has the same never endings men do in their cockhead. they feel the orgasm there first of all. Some have very sensitive g=spots. Never neglect gently play and love to the clit!
 

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we have a partial success! ok, so we went out got food did some shoping together, i had it in my mind to try something new...got ky the couples one, we tried it out...of course she wanted me to wear the vibrating ring...but heres where it gets interesting...we used the lube as the instructions said...and started having sex. it made her wetter and tighter than ever; it made me last forever. then something amazing happened! the vibrators batteried started to die off and i could fuck faster without stopping so she had what i believe was a vaginal orgasm!!! I never mentioned any of this to her at all, she said it wasnt from the clit, that the clit wasnt sensitive at all!
I feel better now...then we got drunk and i walked her home! what a nice night!

my ego is a little messed up i'll admit that but thats the first step to fixing it, right?
 

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we have a partial success!

Great! Now, don't fuck it up by pressuring her on the details of her (possible) vaginal orgasm. Keep yur yap shut about it. Don't clam up and act cold, just don't pester her about it. If she brings it up, tell her something like; you thought she was soooo sexy cumming like that.

Most of all, keep showing her that you love her. EVEN when there's no possibility of sex!

Be complimentary, do something sweet for no damn reason at all, don't pressure her for sex, at all. Men use sex as a way to emotionally connect with their women, which is why you're having such a hard time with the whole, "can't cum from just me" thing. Most women NEED to be emotionally invested PRIOR to sex... for a lot of women, sex is a way to show their man how much they love him, but if she doesn't feel loved outside of the bedroom... you're gonna have problems.

Also, get your gf to go to a different gyno. Not saying her current gyno is bad, but on things like this a second (or even third) opinion never hurts!

Most of all, remember, sex shouldn't be goal oriented... showing her you love her and you love having any kind of sex with her is more important than getting to the Big O.
 

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Great! Now, don't fuck it up by pressuring her on the details of her (possible) vaginal orgasm. Keep yur yap shut about it. Don't clam up and act cold, just don't pester her about it. If she brings it up, tell her something like; you thought she was soooo sexy cumming like that.

Most of all, keep showing her that you love her. EVEN when there's no possibility of sex!

Be complimentary, do something sweet for no damn reason at all, don't pressure her for sex, at all. Men use sex as a way to emotionally connect with their women, which is why you're having such a hard time with the whole, "can't cum from just me" thing. Most women NEED to be emotionally invested PRIOR to sex... for a lot of women, sex is a way to show their man how much they love him, but if she doesn't feel loved outside of the bedroom... you're gonna have problems.

Also, get your gf to go to a different gyno. Not saying her current gyno is bad, but on things like this a second (or even third) opinion never hurts!

Most of all, remember, sex shouldn't be goal oriented... showing her you love her and you love having any kind of sex with her is more important than getting to the Big O.

couldn't agree more! listen to this woman!