As a minimum, I'd say Shemar is a DL guy and probably has a "mate" in hiding. Hollywood likes him so he gets protected. For a man as fine as he is and don't have a steady female or yet married....this one is not much to guess at.
There was a nude beach shot here a while back. It was some nice thickness.
he's been open about his bisexuality. that came out when he was dating toni braxton back in the day.