After my girlfriend and i finish having sex she is always sore after we are done. We go for about an hour, start out slow always, but i end up pounding away at what seems like a small opening to me. I know this topic probably has been covered before, but what are some techniques that i can use to make her not hurt so much after sex so we don't have to wait a day or two to have sex again. I don't mind waiting, but both parties are getting tired of waiting to have sex again. On average we have sex about twice a week maybe three just depends because of our busy lives. Hope to hear an answer soon!