She's curious

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  1. Epicfailguy

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    Hey guys

    This girl i've known for years who is like a friend to me asked me about my unit a while ago (as a joke)
    well,i told her and her jaw kinda dropped...

    she's in a relationship but she's realy REALY curious about what i've got dangling down there

    should i show her with all the consequences? (she hinted several times she liked me)
    or should i do the moral good and keep it in my pants? :confused:

    dilemma dilemma
     
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    Risk vs Reward....

    Ask yourself, what could you possibly gain from showing her?

    I see lots of potential for lots of problems but very little upside. just because your big doesnt mean you should whip it out at any opportunity.
     
  3. Epicfailguy

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    Yea,i know but i also know she likes me...
    or at least im not blind and deaf and know how to take a hint...

    sigh :redface:
     
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    I don't know, Epic, it doesn't seem too fraughtful to me.

    If she really would like to see it; if you really would like to show it to her; and if neither of you is in a serious relationship with another who deserves any great say; I think it just depends upon your respective comfort levels.

    Of course, if I were her and saw it, I'd probably want to touch it; if I got to touch it, I just might want to kiss it; if I kissed it, well what the hell, I'd stick it in my mouth; at that point it would probably occur to me - if I were a girl - I have someplace else we could stick it.

    Are you sure she doesn't think the way I think, or if she does, are you sure you're ready?
     
  5. Epicfailguy

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    that's exactly the dilemma i'm in... lol
     
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    she said she likes you, so she obviously wants more from you. but you got to question how serious is the relationship she is in? maybe she is looking for a comparison to her current man.

    what to do, what to do... :)
     
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    Is she looking for a way out of that relationship, as in a big hard place to land, or is she perhaps looking to make him jealous? You could get yourself caught in the middle of a triangle there my friend.

    Check out where the wind is blowing before you fart against it.
     
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    that was what i was thinking
    and the BF is very current <_>
     
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    if she's in a relationship, steer clear. that just breeds all kinds of unnecessary drama. if you think she actually likes you and you like her, let her know and have her drop the current and get with you...if you keep it a casual thing, even outside her current relationship, and one of you likes the other more than the other likes the one, someone could get hurt and it could ruin the friendship. so i'd just avoid it for now, enjoy the sexual tension and if it happens to erupt and works out, mazel tov. ;)
     
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    probs would be the best
    tnx for all the advice guys ;)
     
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    "If you give a mouse a cookie..."

    you know the rest.
     
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    keep it in your pants or you'll impress her as a pervert. believe me if she wants to see it, she will let you know. I had a similiar situation years ago, and I declined to tell my size, other than, "I'm told I am big". she said she had heard thru rumors. anyway, she had a bf a that time, we had a couple drinks, a nice evening and she left. a couple months later, she shows up, now unattached, a few drinks, I escort her to her car, she wheels around, embraces me for a kiss, and her hand went down my pants. "oh, my!! follow me, come home with me." I did.
     
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    She wanted the information but not the intimacy. Let's hope she begins gossiping with other girls and they start to make excuses to be near you, E-guy. Be patient and the honeys will begin to circle.
     
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    And by all means keep us updated of any developments some of us have the same dilemma as you and would like to see what may happen haha
     
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    No don't show her under any circumstances. It's not worth the conquences.
     
  16. TheRob

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    if she is willing to cheat on her bf
    you don't want her as a gf
    it's simple
     
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