It depends on who is saying it, how long we've known each other, and other factors.
Not that I even really do hook ups or one night stands anymore but when I did have them it did not offend me when men said how I had a nice cock, a handsome face, a very sexy body, that I'm the perfect size to suck, that they could suck me for days, you have the best cock I've ever sucked, or when the first guy I had sex with said how I reminded him of his favorite dildo.
One time I was having sex with this guy and I was flogging and paddling him and during the middle of sex I just said "Sorry this isn't working out, let's end it." since he wasn't telling me what he wanted to do and I'm not a mind reader.
I had offered to tie him up, do sensation type stuff with him (ice and hot wax), and I offered to blindfold him and while he did top me from the bottom when I did SM to him I was fine with this.
Oddly enough I've had more women say stuff like "I just want to use you! ALL men want to be used for sex!" to me than men.
I had one submissive woman I had sex with stalk me after we had sex, and mind you this was after we had agreed that no matter what happened or did not happen that we'd just go our separate ways.
She also had sex with my friend that same night/next morning, and he'd watched us have sex in the back of his car, but I really do not care about her and him having sex at all. I had consensually used a crop on her when we had all visited an adult sex toy store.
I did find it creepy and really weird sending up red flags with me when she started stalking me after we'd had sex and saying how she was my boyfriend/lover, and we'd only known each other for a few hours and then had sex, and we'd agreed that no matter what happened or what did not happen, we would just go on with our lives. She also knew that I'd knew that she and my friend had sex and I did not care that they'd done this, she did not stalk him for some reason? I didn't fuck her even though she did want it and wanted me to do it bareback. Scary.