Shit, I dont understand myself. ur opinion..plz

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by nabludatelj, Apr 5, 2010.

  1. nabludatelj

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    Hey.
    There is a problem in my sexual life. lol.
    I had been with girl.. once ( I lost my virginity with her) and it was not so good as expected.
    After that I had 4 guys who I messed up with. 4 of them sucked me off. I tried to suck 3 3 of them.
    Conclusion is... I caught myself on the thought tht I dont like to be with a guy. I dont like blowjob. and I totally dont like to suck. I just came back from that 4th guy.. I have no emotions at all.. It is very weird, coz I can be turned on looking at cock. but after each time.. I like guys less and less.
    I have not tried anal with them.. just dont want to...
    damn..
    dont know... whats happening...
    need to find a girl.. to check will I like a blowjob from her? Will I love sex with her.....
    This shit is starting really bother me.. I have no emotions from sexual actions...

    ur opinions.. plz.
     
  2. blkbro510

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    It comes in waves. When you want to be with guy you will. For now check out with your girl. Don't sweat the small stuff.
     
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    I wouldn't get too distressed by first time experiences. Many people don't have a good first experience. It doesn't mean that it won't get better.

    You said that you're aroused by looking at penises, but you haven't said whether you're aroused by looking at women. What arouses you?
     
  4. nabludatelj

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    I like women..))) I know that I like them more than guys. I falling in love with them... (i think so..). And girls turn me on for sure... nice breast, nice ass..nice body... face..)).. I can say tht I am really aroused when I m looking at nice hot girl...

    But the problem.. is.. that after today's experience.. I dont want to have something with guy... but might it is not a problem... at all.?))

    I wanted to add.. that I started to look for some sexual action with guys... because it is easier for me to pick them up.. than a good girl.. I think if I had a girl.. I would even think about cocks... I think so...
     
  5. D_Dagleishe Deadlyfarte

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    I'm in a simular situation too. Lol. Shit is confusing as a motherfucka! lol
     
  6. nabludatelj

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    =)).. thats the point.. so.. confused..)
     
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    I hate to break it to you but you might just be straight.
     
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    LoL.. +)).. if i am.. then I ll be very very very happy.. lol.

     
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    Just do what you enjoy and do not do what you don't enjoy. And try to get better at what you are doing. Sex is an art form too! However it is better to aim at the goal of pleasing the one you are with, not acting like the artificial characters in porn.
     
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    Have you tried a good guy? Maybe the four you had were duds.:tongue:
     
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    Well i wouldnt worry too much about the first time as its rarely ever that great.......however.......avoid Chapeltown,Bramley,Headingley as the class of women from there are not the best.......dunno what they are like in the sack though!

    Just chillax and go with the flow.....whats with all the planning? If you prefer women then stick to women.

    Emotions don't come into the equation early on so i wouldnt worry on that score.

    GL!
     
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    Nice cock, RyoDave!
     
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    dont succumb to the pressures of society. Be straight and be proud!
     
  14. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I think you should stop trying to understand yourself and just do what feels right. If being with men doesn't feel right, then don't do it.
     
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