Shock when first seeing your partners penis...

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Hey Ladies (& Gents),

I just wondered of you have any similar experiences which I've had a few times and loved :)The moment when the women I have been with first sets eyes on my package.

I'm not going to lie I absolutely loved it; I have them saying its bigger than ex bfs, bigger than husbands. I know it's very selfish thread but I'd love to hear the women's side of this.

Sam
 

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OK, you may not realize this, but we expect most men to have a penis. We know it's down there covered by your slacks and maybe underwear. We know it gets hard, too, believe it or not!

So when the time comes for the honky-tonkin' we do expect the member to be unveiled, but until I became a regular here I've never realized just how much stock men put into that moment.

At some point in the festivities I realized that my future husband was different and in a good way. But the visual was not the cue.
 
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Hmmm didnt faze me one bit with any of my partners as i knew what they had beforehand
 

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Only three times have I been surprised enough that it would have registered on my face. Only once have I said anything out loud. Actually, I think I laughed. He told a joke about having a larger penis than another friend of mine which was suddenly hilarious when I saw that it was true, and by how much. But I'm sure the first thing he registered on my face was surprise. Same expression for the very biggest as for the very smallest. I didn't know they came in those sizes until I saw them.
 

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Why would anyone bring up ex-partners at a time like this? It must happen, because it's constantly being mentioned here, but I don't get it. If a guy started comparing me to an ex girlfriend the first time he saw me naked, it would be the biggest turn-off ever. Even if it was complimentary, I'd think he was a douche.

Going off on a tangent because it seems to be a hot topic here, but my self-worth doesn't come from my partner denigrating his ex, so I don't understand the relentless obsession with questioning and comparing that some people have. Let it go.
 

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Why would anyone bring up ex-partners at a time like this? It must happen, because it's constantly being mentioned here, but I don't get it. If a guy started comparing me to an ex girlfriend the first time he saw me naked, it would be the biggest turn-off ever. Even if it was complimentary, I'd think he was a douche.

My thoughts exactly on a lot of levels. Guys start a lot of threads here about their women comparing them with guys from their past. I think most of these threads are made up, but regardless they all sound crazy. The idea of telling a guy how he compares (in any way) with an ex is just madness. It's not only that it's rude and unfair to him, but I don't really even think that way. I think it comes down to something I've said before on this site - attraction is NOT a math equation or a ratings system, no matter how much some guys here seem to insist it's all about beating the other guys and getting the highest score.
 
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