Probably the only time I cum on my wife's face and she likes it! We did a "facial" twice on purpose over the last almost 19 years. First time was because we watched enough porn after like a year or two early in our relationship and we both said "fuck it, let's try it!" And she didn't really like it, and I didn't either. Just not very cool. And I really don't like facials in porn, it's really very boring. It's forced and it's the "well, it's time!" moment. I like when the dude and her are going at it and he pulls out cuz he just has to cum so bad and she's all hot and into him fucking her, and then he explodes all over her, and it's not so invasive or forced (especially those ones where the guy is jerking off for a loooooonnnngggg time and it's boring).
this is how I cum. She wants it that way. We LOVE when we cum together and I get to finish in her. But then I'm "falling" out of her for up to two days, I cum a LOT sometimes and it will make a surprise exit when she least expects, or wants, it. So cumming in her is a rarity, maybe a few times a year at best, and when we're both in town, we fuck every single day no exceptions.
I also pull out because I need to work to make sure I'm getting off as much as I need to. If all the cum doesn't come out it irritates me later and sometimes can be painful (like peeing after sex but waiting a little bit and then you're shooting a massive, dense ball of thick cum out with your pee, that hurts like my whole urinary tract for sometimes hours afterwards, not fun!). Plus, I quit moving when I'm cumming in her and I don't feel like I finish completely, it's too much sensitivity on my head and becomes really uncomfortable to keep moving. when I pull out to cum I can stroke perfectly and prolong my orgasm for well beyond 30 seconds, sometimes I'm pulsing and cum is coming out for up to a minute. My wife loves how hard I cum and how long my orgasm lasts, and wants to make sure I'm getting off as hard as I possibly can, every time we fuck or I masturbate (yes, she wants me to cum hard all the time!). So, inadvertently, I cum on her face/give her a facial but it's because I pulled out and never know how far, or how much, cum will travel