Short for doggy?

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  1. michelangelo77

    michelangelo77 New Member

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    Hi,

    My girlfriend refused to do doggy for some reasons, only known to herself. Than, once, during crazy sex we had one night, she agreed..

    I felt good and thought i would kill her fucking her from behind, but it didn't happend! She went on her knees, but she didn't want to put her head on the pillow, and with that constraint i couldn't reach her. Not that i couldn't go in there all length, but i couldn't touch her pussy entrance al all!!!

    I am 6 inches long(maybe little smaller, 5 4/5-14.7 cm)? The girl is skinny btw.

    Did anyone had that expirience? Is it possible that with 6 inches i couldn't do doggy style? Did any girl/boy had doggy with 6 inces? If yes, is it a problem with that size?

    Please help
     
  2. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    That is strange.

    I did have trouble doing doggy with an ex but then again he was only 5 inches long and i do kind of have a big ass. But it wasnt impossible it just meant i had to get itno the right position for him to penetrate me enough.

    I cant see why with 6 inches you wouldnt have enough to penetrate. All i can assume is that she must have been pulling her pelvis forward. Ask her next time to put her whole chest down on the pillow as it will then push the whole pelvic area backwards and expose her nicely for doggy
     
  3. Love-it

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    Your gal must be very cheeky.

    I am 6.5" long and the few times, years ago, that I had a chance to do my wife doggy style, I got in all the way.
     
  4. Principessa

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    I don't think your cock is too short, however it is possible her ass is too big. :tongue:
     
  5. mark999

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    Theres a techniqur with doggy, you need to find the correct angle of entry. try inserting a finger first as a guide
     
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    my g/f has a lot of trouble with doggy, we have tried so many different variations and angles but still with no luck. She said that it hurts too much and doesn't feel comfortable at all, i definately cannot put it all in as my nob like head buts her stomach. My g/f is quiet small/petite only about 5 foot tall, so yea maybe it does relate to how small she is?
     
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    try start with a position that she finds comfortable and then try doggy
     
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    6 inches should be plenty for doggie style,particularly since you say she's skinny.I'm between 7-7.5 and I have doggie no problem with my gf,who has a very rounded backside.
     
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    its definatly the angle..she really needs to arch her back more. doggy style is a position known for deep penetration so it shoudnt be a problem
     
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    I do my g/f doggie all the time i have a 5"1/4 and I get in all the way i put my right leg over hers and kinda hit it from the side but it helps go deeper I don't think i fill her up like the ladies talk about here but I hit her G-spot which is only a few inches in so it works out for us
     
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    My Wife and I have a lot of trouble with doggy style. She has "junk in the trunk" as she likes to say, and I...well I have a 4 inch erection. So you can see how we have trouble.
     
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    As said previously angle and position are quite important for doggy !

    One of my GF experienced pain during doggy with her BF 7" cock.
    But then she was able to take me balls deep, even if she was a bit afraid.
     
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    I would have thought 6 inches is about perfect for doggy, but I wonder if the shape of your penis makes a difference. I have 8 inches, and quite a pronounced upward curve. I rarely do doggy with my partner any more as she finds it too intense. Incidentally, she has a very big bottom too. When we do do it I have to promise to go no more than half way, and usually we have to stop anyway. It's the only position we've found where my size really gets in the way...which is a shame, because we both used to enjoy it.
     
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    You can have a woman with a butt that sticks out enough that it does require the guy to be quite lengthy in order to get any real length in her.I dated a girl years ago with a huge backside,and I found I lost a few inches just getting past her cheeks,by that point there was only a few inches left for penetration.
     
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    I have 6 and 1/2 inches and have never had problem doing doggie with my wife of 22 years and any girlfriends before that. I have always been blessed with finding the "entrance". Its like my one-eyed friend can actually see.
     
  16. rob_just_rob

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    I've dated women of (almost) all shapes and sizes and have been able to reach/penetrate all of them in the rutting* position. And I'm not unusually long, either. Far more frequent is the problem of not being able to thrust too deeply in that position, especially when certain angles of approach are taken.


    * You didn't think I had forgotten this, did you?
     
  17. transformer_99

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    One of my first loves, we tried doggy style, she didn't like it either. Never elaborated on it, she just looked back at me and said "I don't think I like doing it this way." The way she said it, led me to believe she wasn't thrilled about the lack of intimacy with the position. It's really a pretty "cold f*ck" if you look at it from the woman's perspective, no kissing, just drilling her from behind. "Any @ss would do", I suppose is some women's interpretation. Heck, she could probably just read a book while the guy is doing his thing. At least if you are making love from behind her, you can hold her in your arms while kissing when her head is turned back, even massaging her breasts. There's just more intimacy which is what I understand women want when they make love.

    Other's I've had doggy with, some took it as a compliment that their @ss was still worthy of objectifying and getting off over.

    Who knows, maybe it's a self conscious thing, where she might be thinking she didn't wipe herself good enough, or there are cling-ons/dingleberries around her anus. Just an uneasy, uncomfortable feeling for her. I'd say that's why missionary is probably the most popularly performed on top of best penetration depth, or even if she's on top, she can always bear hug you and grind. Not every sexual encounter, the woman wants to feel like just another piece of @ss you are beating off into, especially if it's wifey.
     
  18. Aplus

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    I figure every basic position has at least 10 or 20 variations, so sometimes it takes just being more spontanous or creative to find them. Not always easy or smooth in the middle of things I know, but good things can happen sometimes when you allow yourselves to try different things and angles. Could be that she just doesn't find the position that pleasurable. It happens. I'm that size, and I did used to have a lot of problems with it. I've found it was more a lack of experience and technique on my part, as opposed to reach. I have no problems with it now, but will admit it isn't exactly my favorite. Just doesn't feel as good personally to me as other positions. "Shrugs."
     
  19. D_Andy_Whorewall

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    Doggie style is always initiated by my wife ! I'm 7" and she is a little heavier than when we married 23 years ago, and I have NO problem entering. She always puts her head on a pillow and thrusts her ass high in the air, and there her pussy is , ready for the taking !

    She recieves very little pleasure from this position, but knows it's my favorite. I bury myself deep and her cheeks get nustled up against my pelvis as I grind away. Very different from the missonary position.

    For some reason when I cum in this position it is "the" most intense orgasm of ANY position. I am literaly drained when I finally pull out. My wife enjoys the intense pleasure it gives me and it's also a very submissive position, she enjoys that as well.
     
  20. ManlyBanisters

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    Well - yes - when we make love - but I think men also need that when they make love - fucking is a different matter. Sometimes women just need to rut too (quite literally in the case of doggy, as someone pointed out). Women need to fuck and be fucked too. It's not just caresses and murmuring sweet nothings we're after. A good 'drilling' can be just the ticket.

    And no, I could not read a book whilst being done doggy cos when it's done right [IMO, of course] I'm either stuffed into a pillow/cushion/wall/car bonnet* (or whatever) or bouncing around too much! (It is a good position if both parties want to watch porn while fucking tho...)

    Anyway - doggy doesn't just have to be grab the hips and hump it - both the man and woman have easy access to her clit, he can play with her ass, I often reach back and grab his balls, reach round to grab his ass/thighs - and then there's ass smacking (I love a good smacking when being fucked from behind - not too hard, just a little sting! [mmm, yeah.. I may have to go wake him up soon...])

    Oh I dunno - If you look at it from the woman's perspective it could be anyone back there! I have some of my best fantasies when we're doing doggy and my man knows that - sometimes he's cool with it and sometimes he feels the need to flip me over and remind me who's cock it is that's making me moan like an overacting pornstar.

    Anyway - on the topic of shortness and doggy and to original poster - unlike your partner I do have a big ass and I've never had any trouble getting in position for doggy. Even without her head in the pillow it is just a question of dipping the back and spreading the legs a little wider. If she can't do that then she's either being obtuse and doesn't really want to doggy, in which case you have to talk about it or drop it, or maybe it's something simple like backpain or stiffness that is preventing her from relaxing - try a back rub with oils as foreplay - or start off trying it standing with you behind and her with one leg up on something. I know that's not doggy - but if she's willing to try it is a gradual progression thing. And play with her clit when you're behind her - let her see the advantages to the position!

    *Americans, if you need translation I mean 'hood' when I say 'bonnet' - sorry
     
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