Short men with tall women

[PurpleThrillHammer]

I'm 6'2" and would LOVE to date a taller women. The girls basketball coach at my highschool was about 6'4" and HOT!!! Ever since then I've always wanted to be with a +6' women. Owell maybe someday

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

I'm like NJ; 5'8" and self-conscious about my height. I thought I needed someone 6' and up so that I could wear heels out on dates (we all know that women's asses look better in heels). I'm with a man who is 5'10" so I've done away with the heels. Also, I'm not very feminine so it takes a pretty big and strong man to make me look like a woman. Otherwise I look like the man and he looks like a child.

When I'm sitting, I've noticed that men who are a couple of inches shorter than me appear to be taller. So if you're sitting down and you catch her interest, she wouldn't reject you after seeing that you're actually shorter than her.

To the OP, if you can't find a tall woman then find a woman and buy her some 4" heels. Instant height.

 

[Viking_UK]

My cousin's 6'4" and her man's only 5'6", so it does happen. It's mainly a confidence thing.

 

[D_Odipherous Pitts]

I read all these guys saying they're short at 5'-6" to 5'-8"... I'd give my left nut to be that tall! Try growing up ALWAYS being the shortest one in your class, etc. At 5'-2" I am short but I really don't notice it much. Okay, maybe I've just lowered my standards on what type of women I could date, however most women enjoy my company but perhaps would not date me because of my height. I think that is why many of the women I have dated actually asked me out! Because of my height I had some self esteem issues and low inner confidence.

However when I started bodybuilding I soon discovered that my height was a big advantage when in a class determined by weight. When I stood next to a guy who weighed the same as me but was 6" taller than me I looked much more muscular and thick. Hence, I was very successful on stage.

Bodybuilding also gave me more self confidence in how I looked and perhaps because of that I tended to walk a bit taller in my step and I was actually looked "up to" by others for the first time in my life.

And as my signature says, my cock, like my body is very thick, hard, and vascular... which also can help in the self confidence department. I never felt I had a big cock but people who have seen it hard have all commented on how thick it was. Plus with my shortness it does seem to hang closer to the floor!

 

[korinaus]

I read all these guys saying they're short at 5'-6" to 5'-8"... I'd give my left nut to be that tall! Try growing up ALWAYS being the shortest one in your class, etc. At 5'-2" I am short but I really don't notice it much. Okay, maybe I've just lowered my standards on what type of women I could date, however most women enjoy my company but perhaps would not date me because of my height. I think that is why many of the women I have dated actually asked me out! Because of my height I had some self esteem issues and low inner confidence.

However when I started bodybuilding I soon discovered that my height was a big advantage when in a class determined by weight. When I stood next to a guy who weighed the same as me but was 6" taller than me I looked much more muscular and thick. Hence, I was very successful on stage.

Bodybuilding also gave me more self confidence in how I looked and perhaps because of that I tended to walk a bit taller in my step and I was actually looked "up to" by others for the first time in my life.

And as my signature says, my cock, like my body is very thick, hard, and vascular... which also can help in the self confidence department. I never felt I had a big cock but people who have seen it hard have all commented on how thick it was. Plus with my shortness it does seem to hang closer to the floor!

A nice read!

 

[D_Rawkesbye Deadheade]

You know, a good posture can make you stand taller. Ever looked at ballroom dancers? They can be of average height and yet stand so tall.

Wearing tighter fit clothes - as opposed to baggy ones - can help shape your overall appearance, too.

And as far as dating taller women are concerned, it's your self-esteem you have to work on. Admittedly you won't be able to attract all taller women but I bet you're not attracting all shorter women as you are either. You can't change people's preference... but you can always try to persuade them.

Stand tall, mate. And lift that spirit.

 

[nicenycdick]

I am just under 6' in bare feet, so most men are shorter than I am and that's OK.
If he wants to get my attention, though, his confidence and personality both have to be strong.

I have stood in front of Ms. Shady. I am 5'8" or so. I didn't feel that anything was amiss, despite the difference in height. What the OP doesn't get is that the obession he refers to is his own. And, of course, this passion for women taller than the norm just fuels the obession. I suspect, as well, that tall women are as uncomfortable with their height as the OP is with his. Life doesn't always deal straight. Get over it and things will improve.

 

[QwentyJ1987]

I think you need to address your issues and come to terms with who you are. You cannot de facto change your height, so you have to get used to it and to the people who will overlook you because of it. When you become confortable in your own skin, then others find that attractive.I'm sure there are plenty of women who wouldn't reject a guy on his height., What you have to make sure of is that you avoid those who do.

I'm not small,I'm dead on average (5'9") yet these days in my generation, there are more and more taller girls, plenty of those taller than me, like the 6'3" girl on my course who I sit next to.

Act confident, be charming, make her laugh, and I'm pretty sure the difference in height goes out the window.

 

[B_Marcus50]

Seriously though, are you attractive, nice, intelligent, kind, have a great sense of humor? Those are the things women look for in a man. Now while I admit a predilection for tall men it's not cause I dislike short men. It has more to do with never quite being comfortable with my own height. :redface: I like to feel safe, and protected, I get that from taller men.

Amazing that you fail to see how contradicting your post is.

No matter how nice, intelligent or funny a short guy is, he will never have a chance with most women. Women don't care about those things if you're a short man. She will reject you anyway.

 

[B_Marcus50]

I wish tall men would start rejecting short women based on their height. Height-obsessed women need a taste of their own medicine to know how it feels to be rejected and ignored based on something you can not change.

QFT! That would be so great!
I wish men were just as shallow and extremely critical as women are.

 

[Viking_UK]

QFT! That would be so great!
I wish men were just as shallow and extremely critical as women are.

Excuse me? "Her tits are too small." "Her butt's too big." Those are comments I've heard often enough from guys. We're just as shallow and critical as any woman.

 

[QwentyJ1987]

Excuse me? "Her tits are too small." "Her butt's too big." Those are comments I've heard often enough from guys. We're just as shallow and critical as any woman.

I'm sure Marcus is paranoid or has a complex, going on what I've seen him write in the Woman's section.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

I have stood in front of Ms. Shady. I am 5'8" or so. I didn't feel that anything was amiss, despite the difference in height. What the OP doesn't get is that the obession he refers to is his own. And, of course, this passion for women taller than the norm just fuels the obession. I suspect, as well, that tall women are as uncomfortable with their height as the OP is with his. Life doesn't always deal straight. Get over it and things will improve.

Indeed.
NiceNYCDick is a perfect example of a man that exudes confidence, intelligence, and authority to such an extent that his height is the last thing considered. He's also just damn fun to chill with. :hug:

 

[jackoffalltrades]

I'm 5' 5" and date a girl who's 5' 9" and head over heels for me. I've dated other taller women in the past too. I've also had quite tall girls who were attracted to me.

Trying to date women that are of a specific height - specially one that's quite unusual (5'10" +) is difficult no matter how tall you are. So I you'll likely waste a lot of time in this quest with the possibility of little success. You'll be more successful with tall women who are confident and secure. You likely have no shot at the ones that feel self conscious about being tall because your height standing next to them will make them look even taller.

Tall women are just like other women - the same things in a guy attract them:

- sense of humour
- confidence
- intelligence
- kindness (but not a pushover)
- being well groomed and well dressed
- good looking
- ambitious
- successful
- interesting
- good conversationalist
- smooth, but not greasy
- good dancer

And don't make height an issue - part of the confidence thing. You have to portray the attitude that you have little to no insecurities - particularly with respect to height.

Oh yeah. And it helps if you have a big dick.

 

[nevin]

Be a man. Stop being a pussy. I'm 5'3" and it doesn't matter. Research RSD, Read Social Dynamics, and dude you'll be blown away. Yes there are the 1-2% of chicks who won't even look at you, but you don't want to girls anyways. Height isn't what attracts and attraction isn't a choice. You have self esteem of 0. Raise that shit up man. When I walk into the room, I don't look for whoever is the cool dude, I'm the fucking cool dude. It's all in your head. Money, looks, big dick... it all is nothing compared to game and just being an awesome person. Look up RSD and the Blueprint Decoded, for real.

Having money should be for you. Looking good and hygiene should be for you. Success should be for you. Being fit, all for you. A big dick, all just for you. Having a big dick isn't gonna net you a girl, and if it does, probably not the one you want anyways. So, be a cool dude, and if you aren't cool, learn. Research this shit online and change yourself.

 

[Doc_Choc]

I'm 5'6" too just like Joseph.

Have dated a girl taller than for a while actually but mostly they have been a couple of inches shorter but with heels (almost always when we are out) they are my height or taller at times.

I have wished for a lot of things about my self physically but height has never been a real issue as such and I hope it wont become either !

 

[cut88]

I think women who have a problem with dating shorter guys have a grade school brain. I've had many girls taller than me come on to me and then proceed to tell me how they wish they could find a taller guy to date. Makes no sense at all. I myself am 5'9" and don't care about height in women 5.5" or 6.2" as long as they have a brain and a good heart.

 

[crazy_one53402]

I am 6'6'' and my Boy friend is about 5'5''
I kind of like it

 

[SouthernGirl]

Im 5'9 & my boo is 5'6. Plus I like 2 wear heels so that makes it even more obvious. He's always commenting on how im taller than him.

 

[D_Odipherous Pitts]

I am 6'6'' and my Boy friend is about 5'5''
I kind of like it

The question was about short men with tall women