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The question was about short men with tall women
I don't mean to point out the obvious but this is exactly why we get snippy here in the women's forum :tongue: ask women a question and the men will answer.
The question was about short men with tall women
I don't mean to point out the obvious but this is exactly why we get snippy here in the women's forum :tongue: ask women a question and the men will answer.
I also don't want to point out the obvious also but this question wasn't asked in the women's forum...
I also don't want to point out the obvious also but this question wasn't asked in the women's forum...
When I first consciously decided to avoid short guys...
What if all tall men started consciously avoiding tall women, then you would have a problem wouldn't you?
For all the reasons you think short men should be avoided, there are equally many reasons for men to avoid tall women.
There was a time when people were discriminated against because of their skin color. These days you get discriminated against based on your height. Wonderful world we live in, no?
What if all tall men started consciously avoiding tall women, then you would have a problem wouldn't you?
For all the reasons you think short men should be avoided, there are equally many reasons for men to avoid tall women.
There was a time when people were discriminated against because of their skin color. These days you get discriminated against based on your height. Wonderful world we live in, no?
This was such a silly reply to AlteredEgo.
But, humour me: why should men avoid tall women? Not using personal anecdotes or anything, because you make it seem like there are sound reasons for men to avoid tall women.
The woman gave pretty good reasons for not dating shorter men anymore; they made her feel terrible about her height in a million ways a day. Get burned a few times and you stop sticking your hand in th fire, right?
Excuse me? "Her tits are too small." "Her butt's too big." Those are comments I've heard often enough from guys. We're just as shallow and critical as any woman.
You just don't get it.This was such a silly reply to AlteredEgo.
But, humour me: why should men avoid tall women? Not using personal anecdotes or anything, because you make it seem like there are sound reasons for men to avoid tall women.
The woman gave pretty good reasons for not dating shorter men anymore; they made her feel terrible about her height in a million ways a day. Get burned a few times and you stop sticking your hand in th fire, right?
That post did come across as rather thouchy didn't it? There aren't really sound reasons to avoid anyone, unless you don't fancy them. I think it's silly that a sizeable minority of small men have a chip on their sholder about this whole charade. In spite of it, I do have sympathy for them. When it's rubbed into their faces somewhat in the workplace, dating scene, everyday life etc. that taller = better, you can understand why they feel so second rate.
Unfortunately, some take this rather badly. I understand why they feel like that, but I don't condone the way they act on it. The way to challenge the issue is literally try to forget about it. It's propbably the hardest thing to do, to drop one's insecurities, but it's the only damn thing you can do.
This was such a silly reply to AlteredEgo.
But, humour me: why should men avoid tall women? Not using personal anecdotes or anything, because you make it seem like there are sound reasons for men to avoid tall women.
This proves you didn't read a damn' word or that you are a fool. My reasons cannot be reversed on me. It wouldn't make sense to say, "Tall men should learn to avoid tall women because tall women routinely, deliberately, and systematically go out of their way to make tall men feel uncomfortable about being tall." It's just not a true statement, and never would be. If it were true, then it would be totally valid.For the same reasons women think short men should be avoided - just in reverse.
Oh well. You can not expect narrow-minded women to understand.
Because I grew up without any men in my household, men have always made me a little nervous. I never learned to respond well to male attention, because every time a guy checked me out, my mother went off on him. Or, they'd know who my mother was once they got my name, and disappear. No lie! (This is because since I was tall and chesty, I always looked a lot older than I was.) So, even as an adult, When men approached me, they couldn't get anywhere. I always had to be the aggressor. I always had to be the one who was brave and charming. I got rejected quite a bit, too! But that just goes with the territory. Getting guys to like me is a numbers game. Some will, some won't, so what? Your problem is you think everyone should kiss your ass.They fail to properly understand the issue because in the game of dating, men are expected to do all the work and take the first step. It is much easier for a woman to find a mate than it is for a man. The women are used to being the ones who are chased and having the privilege of being the buyers, so they will never understand how difficult some men have it.
Wake up and smell the coffee. All mammals discriminate. Every. Last. One. Including you! You won't even date short girls! Maybe short girls should refuse to date you. (I'm just teasing because that's what YOU always say.)There is a principle called "falling in love within a framework" which explains that subconsciously women only allow themselves to be attracted to men who meet very specific demands in terms of physical features (including height!), success, wealth and status.
But I am none of those things. I'm a genius, I'm usually kind to people, and I'm very much a realist. I'm quite mentally stable, and have very high self-esteem, but I don't think I'm better than others. And Not only have I had plenty of minor relationships, and sex partners, but I've also had two very serious relationships, and I wanted to be with everyone I went with. Now I am very happily married, and planning children. So, sorry. You'll have to try that bullshit with the next bitch. Nice try. You lose. Play again later. :wink:And I am sure that not all tall women are twisted, delusional, arrogant, half-brained, insecure, mentally unbalanced freaks of nature like you. No one dates bitter bitches.
No wonder even most tall men avoid tall women like the plague. They know that most tall women (maybe all?) like you suffer from severe attitude problems.
Yes, the feeling is mutual. :wink:
But I am none of those things. I'm a genius, I'm usually kind to people, and I'm very much a realist. I'm quite mentally stable, and have very high self-esteem
This proves you didn't read a damn' word or that you are a fool. My reasons cannot be reversed on me. It wouldn't make sense to say, "Tall men should learn to avoid tall women because tall women routinely, deliberately, and systematically go out of their way to make tall men feel uncomfortable about being tall." It's just not a true statement, and never would be. If it were true, then it would be totally valid.
I LEARNED to avoid short men because some short men are exactly like you and Marcus. Those short men taught me that short men were more likely to make me suffer in our relationship just because my extremely tall parents didn't hand me enough short genes from my short grandmothers. I bet you know what it's like to become the same height as the parent you most wanted to be like. I never got to be as tall as my mother. (But I never took that out on any men!) Short men asked me to slouch at all times. Short men made nasty comments or rude gestures if I wore heels, and wouldn't stand or walk right next to me. Short men refused to kiss me in public. When tall men allowed me to just be myself, and told me my legs were pretty, what was I supposed to conclude?
Short men who claimed to love me deliberately went out of their way to make me as uncomfortable with my body as they were with theirs. Too bad. When I met them, I had found them to be very physically attractive. I know that not all short men are like that. But you know what? You and Marcus are. No one dates bitter jerks.