As I said, I do not mean to offend by this, like yourself (Darkseid1998), I appreciate an opinion and also speak my mind.
I'm sure if you didn't want to hear an honest opinion, you wouldn't have asked.
Women would never run this forum for one simple reason, we don't have cocks.
Not instant chemistry but keeping a guy waiting and having given it up to others is kind of questionable especially if she makes excuses not to do it with you, if you were the guy. I checked everything even, hygiene, neatness, working out and found nothing physically unattractive. Maybe I don't fit her preference. Oh well, next girl.
I don't seem to be getting it here, what
exactly is questionable about her..having sex with prior partners? So if she doesn't want to have sex with you, she should anyway because you want to!?
It doesn't work that way. Maybe you reminded her of someone or a relative or god knows, but it doesn't mean she 'should' do anything if she's not into it.
I'm sorry, but this reminds me of the start if date rape a little too much.
You could have just talked to her. Sure, you'd have to be delicate, but we are just human too. Asking her "where she sees this heading?" might be a start and not waste anyone's time, end (but hopefully) start on a high note, no worries, the end. At least you know what you start and things would be a little clearer.
Men don't like to be used and lead on like tools to get free meals. If she paid for some of the meals, it would make the relationship more mutual without sex.
Sure, but women don't like it either, it's a people thing, not a men Vs. women thing. I get that it would sting but it's just one person that doesn't know how to communicate what they actually want. Would you really want to be with someone like that!?
Besides it's far too predictable and lazy to blame that ye olde sex's debate.
It's not positive to have expectations prior to dating a person. It can be rather disappointing.
Getting back on topic, I haven't found dating websites particularly productive. I have found that *some* ppl are on there for a reason, because they are freaky. I prefer to avoid that where possible in life.