For me it was a girl I dated for about 3 months she was all of 4'9 an weighed 90lbs. It was fun to be able to throw her around the bedroom an all but I was never able to go balls deep on her and forget about her trying to deep throat me but she did make me look HUGE I mean my dick is 8 1/4 an when she held it or was next to it I felt like I was 15 inches but it did not last because of the size difference I mean besides the sex stuff if I rolled over in my sleep I would hurt her and we could never spoon because my seem were to heavy I am 6'0 and weigh 230 I am a buff guy.