Should "admirers" be allowed...?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by college22punk9, Jan 29, 2006.

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Should "admirers" be allowed on the website?

  1. Yes, welcome everyone, lets just change the website to "penis support group"

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  2. No, unless they are female.

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  3. No, not at all, this support group isn't for them.

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  4. Yes, but they shouldn't be able to chat/post discussions except in certain threads.

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  1. college22punk9

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    I've been on this site for a while. I understand that it's a support group, but at the same time, I think our "hung" population of men has turned into a bunch of people who wanna see some big dicks, and then the rest of us who are on here for fun/support/questions, whatever. Well.... we are all debating wether teens, or lurkers should be on here. But why should dudes with small dicks be on here. I mean, how can I possibly get support or have a question answered about having a big dick, by someone who doesn't have one. I mean what sort of meaningful participation can they share, which would qualify them as having been through the experiences, ect.

    I guess if you disagree with me, then we should just change the message to "penis support group", since we are including everyone. I guess if one or two people were onthe site that were small, it wouldn't have led me to start this thread, but lately, everyone who's spoke to me is like "how big are you.... ....awesome... ...i'm only 6.5"...." or "...ohhh i just like big dicks... i dont have one". Who knows, thats my 2 cents.
     
  2. Matthew

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    So where do you draw the line, as in how many inches exactly? Is it just length or would girth qualify/disqualify someone? And how would you verify and enforce this?

    Also, I'm assuming that women would be excluded too, by your logic ...
     
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    None of the information is verifiable. Even if you require a pic to join, anyone can find a pic of a well-hung guy from an amatuer porn site to post for membership purposes. Besides, if you're worried that you're a freak "down there", the last thing you want to do is take a picture of it and send it off to strangers.
     
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    I understand your logic, but women need to be on here as much as dudes do, because they are recieving the large dick. They may need help in taking it, want to know if there boyfriend/lover is huge or may just be here to offer support, and different opinions. The few that are here contribute immensely IMO.

    That being said, I think it is harsh not to allow people under 18 here, especially considering its an emotionally traumatizing time for many. Just look at some of the stories posted here, it can be tough to be a teenager. I think they need more support than most of us. They probably have more questions as well.
     
  5. college22punk9

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    well i guess by admirers, i was thinking the guys on here. I think women should be on here, becuase there are sex issues that women can answer, like us guys might ask about positions or relationship stuff, ect. I'm not saying we should "police" the arena so much, but i guess its just more annoying that anyone who engages in convo with me lately, is some dude who is all about my dick, and there really is no reason for him to be on this site. I put the poll to include or exculde women. I didn't vote that women shouldn't be on here, but what is the valuable information/correspondence we are gettin from these small dudes, who are up front and say they are here just to see the big dicks?
     
  6. davidjh7

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    You bring up a valid point. THis IS supposed to be a support group, where people with a common experience come to offer advice, and friendship, and support. I myself am not hung. I am here because I found it interesting, and found intellegent people, with a sense of humor. I am ot here to cock worship. IS a large cock an interesting topic? OF course--because it is out of the "norm". DOes a big cock make a perseon better or worse? I don't think anymore so than being good looking, or having a great body, or any of the other physical characteristics that the majority find desireable. But, that being said, I myself will respect the wishes of the majority, who are hung, and here for the support. There are few resources for said hung people, and everybody deserves to be amongst peers. If the concensus is that we who are below a certain endowment are not welocme, I will voluntarily leave. I won;t even ask for a refuns for my gold membership. I just will go away, and not renew when the time comes. If my posts or comments are not welcome, all anybody has to do is say so, and I'll shut up, and just lurk. THis site is enjoyable, but certainly isn;t the end all, be all of my existence. I guess the decision is up to the majority of those who meet the minimum qualifications. By the way, has anybody SET any minimum quaifications as to the definition of "large" or "hung" or "thick", as defined by most of the well endowed here? Just curious.
     
  7. Altairion

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    I think anyone should be allowed here, but keep the title the same as it is truly the focus of the site. While there are a lot of guys with larger than average dicks here, we need some regular guys around to keep things in perspective. They not only learn a lot from our view of things, but we learn from them as well. Oh, and I'm totally against shutting out any of the ladies as well :smile:

    One change I'd like to see is a limitation on the lurkers. Unless a person is a strongly contributing member, maybe they shouldn't be allowed access to the galleries. Sure, some guys/girls get off from being here, so what. However, when all they do is use this site for that and nothing else...then the purpose that this site was founded for has gone by the wayside.


    One last note...I'm still fully in support of making this place friendly for kids under 18 again. They added depth to the community here, and many of them benefited from participating in the forums here. If all it would take would be to eliminate nudity in avatars and posts, I'm all for it. I know it would be some extra work for Rob to do, but maybe some hard working moderators could assist in that endeavour.
     
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    You did pretty much set yourself up for it by choosing college22punk9 as your handle. Let's face it, most people find youth attractive or reminisce about it, so simply by reading your handle I can guess that you are a 22 year-old college guy with a 9 inch cock.

    Gee, why would that interest anybody, particularly gay males?? Hmmm...

    I agree that unless you have some sort of verifiable penis measurement device attached via USB to your computer, anybody can get account here, even those under this magical age of 18. So the best you can do is set up your account so that it provides the most information and enjoyment and the least annoyance for you. I turn off all that instant message crap and only accept e-mail that there is a response to a thread that I posted in.

    Maybe we could get some volunteers to verify claimed measurements.

    Teens should be allowed on here since even (or especially) these days they have a lot of adult pressure to avoid any discussion of sexual issues, so the most important changes that they undergo are done in ignorance. Boys don't even shower together in school any more so they don't even have that opportunity to see what's normal and joke or talk about it. But the US must have gotten whacked by a big stupid stick in recent years and sex + under 18 = SCARY BAD! Oh well, wait a generation or two.

    Let em all in, as if there's a choice.
     
  9. college22punk9

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    ****there is already a discussion going on about teens being allowed or banned on this site, so post those comments under the right thread. ****


    well i just posted this becuase I wanted to know people's views and i was sharing mine. I wasn't like "omg lets kick everyone out".

    and my name is college22punk9, not "i want to tell you all about my big cock cuz you have a small one". so.. umm yeah.

    well... i guess i should expect a fair amount of negative feedback, but honestly, with these membership fees, ect... its no wonder why were are attracting more and more people who dont really "belong" in this sort of support group. I mean people are making money off of everyone's publically posted pictures, so in essence people who post on here, are like freelance porn stars in a sense (if they post XXX pics). So i can see how people's interest might be to keep the membership as high as possible, but with it being a support group, its nice to have outsiders of whatever the group is for, for perspective, however, when the people (in this case, people who aren't large) could very well outnumber the actual people here for support, i think it sort of loses its integrity as a legitimate support group, and turns into something else.

    I guess I started this, becuase I was thinking about leaving the site, becuase it didn't really seem like a support group, it seemed like all the big guys here had to provide soft core porn (personal information/stories) to others wanting to get off on it. Please don't jump to conclusions, i do not think that of 100% of the site, but it is a BIG part of the site (in my opinion).
     
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    A few things.

    Your poll is skewed -- where is the "Anyone can belong here, as long as they provide intelligent and witty insight"? Hmmm ...

    And, as others have suggested, where is the line?

    In terms of lurkers -- problematic? Maybe, but if you don't like having people look at your dick in the gallery, you could always take the picture down.

    Finally, I think more than just the owners of large penises are impacted (in some cases literally) by big dicks ... as some mentioned, there are the girlfriends/wives/boyfriends/husbands, friends (one of my closest friends is 11", and we've had discussions about this before), parents, etc.
     
  11. Matthew

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    What you say here about women is equally true about guys who 'bottom,' including guys with small or average dicks. You can get the same "information/correspondence" from either, depending on who your partners are. To exclude one and not the other doesn't make sense.
     
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    Sounds to me like you have more of an issue with gay dudes being interested in your cock than anything else. I get that, and have no beef with that, but I have to agree with the comment above that your Screen Name basically begs for a gay dude's interest. It's sexy, and sounds like someone I might like to suck.

    I recommend changing it to something less appetizing. My guess is that'll solve a lot of the unsolicited flirtation right away.
     
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    By any definition of size, I belong here.
    But let's not just stop at size. Let's see. My ideal LPSG would only permit:
    Rule 1:Men better hung than me.
    Rule 2: Better looking than me.
    Ok, better hung rules out (according to the user stats I have seen) well over 95% of the site.
    Better looking, - if you ain't in Brucester's or Spladle's league, you're gone.
    Oh, dear, rule number one. Well, I guess I will make an exception for Spladle. He's awfully young, he might still be growing...

    See how silly that is?

    LPSG should remain open for everybody who wishes to contribute. I have read many threads over the last years (yup, i were a lurker for reasons best not discussed at this juncture) and most of the really supporting people over time have been either women or not really well hung men. There just aren't that many DMWs running around - guess there really isn't enough blood for both "heads"...maybe he gets transfusions? What about Madame_Zora? She offers more support, humour and good sense than 99% of the site. What, no penis? No penis to shame a horse? Away with her (she goes, I go...)

    If you are pestered by the trolls or you don't like the stuff under discussion in some of the threads, well - the interface offers some adequate (could, I admit, be better) means of sorting them out.

    As for getting upset, as some do, about folks staring at our nether regions, well there is an easy solution for that. Don't post any pictures.

    Sorry if this sounds kranky, but I really did not like this poll one bit. It works, leave it alone.

    Gah.
     
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    This site has come a long way since its beginning 5-ish (maybe more) years ago as a joke. I think there is a post or two with more of the history of the site, but for the most part things stay on topic and the crowd here is really good. There are some posters who seem to only want to post flames or be a real pill, but they are easy identify, skip over and ignore. You can make what you want out of this site and if you don't like a particular direction a post, chat or PM is going, say so and move on. There are more than 12,000 members now and that means there is just going to be more variety.
     
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    C22punk9 - it sounds like, as someone else mentioned, that the underlying issue is that some guys are after your cock, so to speak. Would it be different for you if those guys had big dicks vs. small dicks?
     
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    word.
     
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    As a reformed lurker myself, let me agree with Altairion. (I do that a lot it seems.) It would be nice if everyone contributed more. It can be frustrating to be in the chat room and want to get an idea of who is in there or see an interesting handle in the "currently active users" list and go to their profile to find that half the folks have zero posts. I like getting to know people through their posts. I am no way near Alt in my number of posts for sure, but I try to work on it.
     
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    nah... it wouldn't make a difference.... i guess its when people approach me, my first impression from them, is using this website as a place to find hookups (another reason i think teens shouldn't be allowed to use this board, but htat is on another thread).... then i think "oh maybe they are on here for support reasons and just want friends"... at which time they usually reveal they aren't big, which leaves me with "why the hell are you on this site... go to e-harmony.com and just type in big dick for a requirement or something and leave me alone".

    No i really dont have a problem with people approaching me on here... i mean i can click "ignore" just as easily as anyone else.

    i just wondered if everyone thought this went from a support group, to somethign else... and if it was because of allowing "everyone" to join. I guess i didn't really know hte history of this site, but who knows.
     
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    blah blah. this is all academic gassing, folks. regardless of whether you think these points are valid or not, it's an unavoidable fact that it would be impossible to even attempt to regulate membership of an internet forum based on dick size. whether you have a problem with smaller guys being here or don't care either way, you're stuck with 'em so you may as well make the best of it.
     
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    ...when life gives you shit, pack it up and sell manure?
     
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