Should "admirers" be allowed...?

[hardboy_fll]

How 'bout DeeBlackthorne, 'cause my screen name screams for sexual attention as well? Not. Truth told, there are way more provocative screen names on the board, and even if someone chooses a provocative name for themselves, that doesn't give someone uninvited the right to hound you for pictures or chat or camming. An analogous, highly incorrigible argument has been made for women who deserve to get raped because they chose to dress seductively; they brought it on themselves. That's called "blaming the victim."

...Not to whine that we're "freaks" or something, but if we don't seem interested in cybersex or camming, then be cool with it.

I was not attempting to blame the victim. I was slapping him around some and telling him to wise up.

We all make many choices each day, each with its own consequences.

As a practical matter, if a particular choice leads to undesired consequences repeatedly then it is wise to change what can be changed, namely our choice. You can't change other people, necessarily.

As a matter of principle, it would be nice if the majority of people knew how to behave around others, whether in person or on the Net, but it just aint so.

As a frequent visitor to nude beaches I can attest that it IS possible for men to behave themselves even while they are in the presence of nude people whom they find attractive, for what it's worth. You can tell who can't behave--they are usually clothed and trolling the beach "looking for hot chicks, dude".

As someone else stated, this site was started largely as a practical joke, drew the interest of well-endowed men and their admirers, and now we are here talking seriously about the penis. It's no secret that a popular use for the penis is sexual gratification and it's well documented that a hard cock has no conscience. So it's a good bet that many visitors to this site are sexually aroused by the subject matter here and will do anything to feed that hunger, including sending messages to those that they find desirable. Maybe our younger visitors are unaware of this and are learning the hard way.

Turn off those messaging functions that lead to consternation and deal with the rest, that's my advice. Ya gotta take the good with the bad in life, it makes us appreciate the good all the more.

 

[CuriousGuy]

I find it utterly laughable and ridiculous that someone with a big dick who is a member of a site called "Large Penis Support Group" would be offended by someone admiring or pursuing some type of interaction with them. Come on people, most people who frequent this site are looking to see humungous willies........straight, gay, black, white or something else. They are looking to compare or fantasize about what it would be like to indulge one of these giants. While I can definitely understand a straight guy not wanting to engage in a conversation with a gay size queen, is it really that painful for them when a gay guy looks at a pic of his huge penis? I chuckle when a guy says "I used to have pics on here but I took them down," indicating that some gay guys were getting off by looking at them. How the hell do you know who looks at your pics? And they are suddenly so shy, but they choose usernames like "12x7dick." LOL Of course people are going to look and be curious. You'll notice that most of the users with similar names don't have any pics. I'm beginning to think that there are very few men out there that truly need a "support" group for such a dilemma, lol. Oh yeah, and I'm proud to be an "admirer" of donkey dicks. Unlike half the guys on here who create a big dick sounding user name and pretend to be a "victim" of this huge penis malady.

 

[dolf250]

First off; much of the material on this board is not really size related. If somebody feels that their problem or issues with having a large dick are not being addressed then start a thread to ask for help with the issue(s) that you are having. There are a huge number of regular contributors who will gladly help and share their knowledge. As for lurkers, I for one would be just as happy if some of them remained as such. If you demand that every member posts it will fill up the board with more crap than I can possibly read. I am happy when somebody decides to post, but let’s face it- this board could not handle tens of thousands of active posters.

For fun I went under underwear and clothing to look up the most receant topics.
#1- “In a perfect world would size matter” I guess small men are not allowed an opinion.
#2- “Would you wear these jeans?”
#3- “What is your cock to height ratio” JUST huge men may skewer the results
#4- “sports underwear” So far no responses by small men giving solutions.
#5- “Merona Mesh” (Wondering if anybody has tried this brand underwear that lets your package breathe.) You do not need a huge cock to appreciate the idea of sweat.

There it is- I would think you could do the same with almost any of the sub-forums and find that there is a place for everybody.

 

[Witlof]

Really interesting thread. I am a newbie to the site and am still learning its various ins and outs, threads, galleries etc. I'm a poster and a lurker, a possessor and an admirer. I've found lots of interesting discussions, some great opinions and some good perve value.
Some of the threads are clearly for big guys and couldn't be usefully participated in by "average" guys or girls except in a "i've got a friend/partner who" way. But if there are lurkers (of whatever dimensions) who get off on following these threads I have no problem with it. The only thing that annoys me is dishonesty. Saying you've got 14 inches doesn't support anyone and it doesn't arouse.
Other threads are more for admirers. If you're not an admirer, you don't have to go there.
So, I think "support group" is probably not the right name any more (perhaps it once was, I wasn't around then so I don't know) and I agree that the site is for big penises generally, whether you own them, wish you owned them, get fucked by them, like looking at them or anything else. All welcome, I say.
And let's not forget that the reasons why this site can provide support/friendship/discussion etc are the very reasons why it could never exclude anyone: it is public and anonymous.
Finally, I just wanted to say thanks to college22punk9 for bringing this up. We may not all agree with him, but it's good to see someone having the balls to express their opinion even if it's controversial.

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

What does my ten bucks entitle me?

10 minutes in my office.

 

[tallguypns]

Gosh, since I don't have a large penis, I don't feel qualified to weigh in on this subject. I might offend someone that "truly" belongs here. Heaven forbid.

 

[hardboy_fll]

First off; much of the material on this board is not really size related. If somebody feels that their problem or issues with having a large dick are not being addressed then start a thread to ask for help with the issue(s) that you are having. There are a huge number of regular contributors who will gladly help and share their knowledge.

Clearly, sex is of interest to the huge majority of humanity. We like talking about it (at least anonymously), thinking about it, and most of all doing it. So this board will necessarily draw a lot of interest and questions when people find it.

What this site really needs to be is a wiki, not a discussion forum. Naturally newcomers will ask questions typical of newcomers so the regulars will tire of answering them. A wiki just sits there and holds the collected wisdom for everybody to peruse.

 

[AlteredEgo]

There used to be a small penis support group that is no longer active. They told anyone that was average to take a flying leap.

Try this one: http://www.measurection.com
Some of the members there don't want to take advice from average guys, but they are in the bitter minority. Plenty of average guys find the suppoort they need there. A few larger guys who feel small too! They used to be called the small xchange, on some other format, but including their various formats, they have been around over 8 years. In UK, they were recently featured in GQ. You might like dual membership here, and there.

 

[B_big dirigible]

So, I think "support group" is probably not the right name any more (perhaps it once was, I wasn't around then so I don't know) and I agree that the site is for big penises generally, whether you own them, wish you owned them, get fucked by them, like looking at them or anything else.

As in, it should be called a fan site?

The support function is legit, even if some have-nots don't take the concept seriously. Of course the fan aspects are legit, too. Admirers, fans, and groupies are part of the scenery.

 

[kauai1]

I voted yes but dont change the name or they wont learn nothing :smile:

 

[CUBE]

Sorry to get back on the soap box ,and I'm not trying to jack this thread, but any rationalization for adding minors here is illegal and I don't support that idea...ever. As for cutting out the small guys...frankly...many guys are just not as big as they claim...others are big and don't admit it...to many, the size is not about length but thickness, or a huge head, or huge balls. The variety is what makes the site fun. What I like most about the site is that it seems to be the rare forum where gays and straights are supportive and have a kind of brotherhood with each other. I say leave it as is...if it ain't broke...

 

[titan1968]

Sorry to get back on the soap box ,and I'm not trying to jack this thread, but any rationalization for adding minors here is illegal and I don't support that idea...ever. As for cutting out the small guys...frankly...many guys are just not as big as they claim...others are big and don't admit it...to many, the size is not about length but thickness, or a huge head, or huge balls. The variety is what makes the site fun. What I like most about the site is that it seems to be the rare forum where gays and straights are supportive and have a kind of brotherhood with each other. I say leave it as is...if it ain't broke...

I couldn't agree with you more. I also believe that minors (under 18 )shouldn't be allowed on the site.

 

[jeff black]

I couldn't agree with you more. I also believe that minors (under 18 )shouldn't be allowed on the site.

people under 18 aren't allowed in here titan

 

[chrisndenv]

On the other hand, I have read a number of posts started by people who identified themselves as teens (sub 18) who had real concerns or questions and they were answered thoughtfully and with real dedication to sensitivity and a desire to help by the elder members on here.

The nice thing is that in LPSG the community has created a safe space for it's members and this seems to extend to the younguns as well.

Now, if this were simply a porn site... well, but it's not.

 

[Matthew]

On the other hand, I have read a number of posts started by people who identified themselves as teens (sub 18) who had real concerns or questions and they were answered thoughtfully and with real dedication to sensitivity and a desire to help by the elder members on here.

The nice thing is that in LPSG the community has created a safe space for it's members and this seems to extend to the younguns as well.

That used to happen, Chris, but there's been a sea change, and LPSG is now 18 and older. Some of us like it and some of us don't, but that's the way it is.

 

[chrisndenv]

Ah, well I can understand why the changes were made but it was one of many reasons why I joined the group, and didn't just lurk about. I was impressed that it wasn't about pics and porn but was about community.

Ok, maybe it'd be more about pics and porn if I was a gold member but who can get off on those itty bitty thumbnails?

 

[jeff black]

If you go here Chris.. you can get your account modified by following the directions
http://www.lpsg.org/showthread.php?t=24640

 

[larry93455]

since there is no way of verifying anyone's penis size, why not just let it be open to all. The discussion groups could be separated, those with small dicks could have their own forum. It would be nice to see a completely open and honest forum about sexuality for both men and women.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Im a post-er and an admirer, so i guess it would get confusing on who here just to admire and who's here for input..

But if you guys like showing off what you have and arent embarresed, enjoy that someone is getting turned on by a comment or picture

 

[husky14620]

{Edited to actually answer the poll question:]

5) None of the above!

[End edit]

Given that admirers, both male and female, often have to deal with the effects of size first hand, as it were, we should definitely be welcome. After all, not all the people who have to "attend to" the "qualified members" have large penises, or even necessarily have penises. I know a lot more about accepting a well endowed man into my body than the well endowed man usually knows about it.

As for "lurkers", I don't often post personally. Many times the subject matter is not even large penis related. As an example, there are 16 pages of "Brokeback Mountain". While I actually read that particular thread, and enjoyed it, it really has nothing to do with large penises. When something does catch my attention and I have something of value to offer the discussion, I contribute as I see fit. My overall level of contribution would certainly leave me as a "lurker" though. I have had some very sincere and heartfelt "discussions" with several members of the board, and I hope they have valued my comments and observations as much as I have theirs. Should we all be denied that based on a status such as "lurker".

During my time "lurking" on this board over the last couple years, this topic - suggestion has come up several times. It seems to me it should be defacto settled by now, but that's just my take on it.

Husky