college22punk9 said:
I've been on this site for a while. I understand that it's a support group, but at the same time, I think our "hung" population of men has turned into a bunch of people who wanna see some big dicks, and then the rest of us who are on here for fun/support/questions, whatever. Well.... we are all debating wether teens, or lurkers should be on here. But why should dudes with small dicks be on here. I mean, how can I possibly get support or have a question answered about having a big dick, by someone who doesn't have one. I mean what sort of meaningful participation can they share, which would qualify them as having been through the experiences, ect.
I guess if you disagree with me, then we should just change the message to "penis support group", since we are including everyone. I guess if one or two people were onthe site that were small, it wouldn't have led me to start this thread, but lately, everyone who's spoke to me is like "how big are you.... ....awesome... ...i'm only 6.5"...." or "...ohhh i just like big dicks... i dont have one". Who knows, thats my 2 cents.
Ive been thinking about this post this afternoon.
Im going to quote from the Gospel of St. Gertrude Stein and ireverently and outrageously misquote, a dick is a dick is a dick is a dick. I have one, you have one, we all have one. We were all fortunate enough to be born with a spectaular multi-purpose home entertainment center between our legs that this site has given opportunity for some really interesting and informative discussion. That everyone can discuss anonymously has probably been of great service to members and those that are coming in as guests. Ive learned a lot since coming on board and, sometimes, more than I thought was possible!
But, to deny someone because they are curious, or dont have a penis that when they walk they trip over is not the way to go. I suspect some have looked at the galleries and wondered, Where was I on the day that they handed out the big ones? Personally, I think sometimes it might be fun to have something I can whip in the air and lasso people with, but I am happy with what I do have. I dont need to be a battering ram. As Mae West said, Its not the size of the ship, its the motion in the ocean, i.e., its not what you got (or dont have) its how you use it.
I think it is great that men of all sizes and orientations and ages are here. I think it is great that we have women here. Today, I enjoyed the posts of Madame Zora, Naughty, and the literary stylings of Alysen. What a great addition! How can you not love having these women here?! The Arguing On The Internet thread has had me laughing every time I read it due to some of the great wits (too numerous to mention) that are cutting loose there. (Id love to jump into the fray but I dont think i can keep up with all of you!) And then there are all the threads that have information that most would not dare to ask in personits a great service. One of the most impressive things on this site is the respect and acceptance that is displayed on a daily basis between posters. To deny someone all of this because they dont have a penisand one of sizeis maybe not the best choice.
Under 18, unfortunately, they are going to get in regardless. I suppose they have to get information somewhere.
If you are worried about admirers, dont post a gallery with your equipment hanging out. Be glad that you have something someone might want to see. If you feel violated by admirers, its only violation by a click of the dick or downloading. If you are worried about gay men, dont. All the gay males I know are extremely intelligent and understand the word no and friendships continue. They, more than most, have a keen sense of the protection of personal space.
I respect your view point but can't agree with it. Sorry. Please don't be offended. You seem like a nice enough person. But like most people, Id rather know you for who you are than for what you possess.:smile: