Should "admirers" be allowed...?

Should "admirers" be allowed on the website?

  • Yes, welcome everyone, lets just change the website to "penis support group"

    Votes: 222 61.3%
  • No, unless they are female.

    Votes: 48 13.3%
  • No, not at all, this support group isn't for them.

    Votes: 31 8.6%
  • Yes, but they shouldn't be able to chat/post discussions except in certain threads.

    Votes: 61 16.9%

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B_babydick

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I am here as an admirer. And I'm happy as long as I'm allowed to be here.
I realize that some issues are only to be discussed by guys with big cocks and I don't post in those threads, if replies are only wanted by guys with big cocks.
It must be most annoying to see if some small dick made a posting about something he has no idea about.
But several topics are not about cock size, and some actually about small dicks.
I'm sure when people see my replies, they will not think it's a reply by a guy with a big cock, due to my user name, but maybe it should be more clear when replies are read from users without information about their cock size.
That problem is partly solved in the visualiser.net site, where you can see the size of each member posting.
As a site mainly for men with big cocks, I think it would be a good idea for an OP to simply say "Replies from big guys only" or "No replies from small dicks", to exclude guys like me whenever they want.
That would probably be enough and even if it doesn't guarantee that small dicks don't post where they are not welcome to, I think most small dicks would respect it, because, both me and many other small dicks, are admirers of guys with real cocks and we have no intention of being disrespectful or trespassing where we are not wanted.
I believe that it's good in many situations to limit the rights for small dicks. For instance there could be pages in this site only allowed for guys with big cocks.

Here's a site I was about to enter when I saw their rules:
"Important - read and agree to the following before entering:
- Your willy isn't smaller than 5 inches (ok 4 inches if you have small shoes) - size DOES matter. If your partner says otherwise they're lying to make you feel better about yourself."
XXX Sex and Free Hot Porn - The Tipsy Sheep

Of course I never entered the page, seeing it was just for real men, shutting small dicks like me out.
small3.5@hotmail.com
 

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Babydick, the problem comes when those less endowed men are into SPH-Small Penis Humilation. They don't have the ability to exercise good sense or courtesy as you seem to do. I have had countless SPH men harass me via PM and IM in chat because they know from my posts I want nothing to do with small dicks. That's right they know I am not interested in them and yet they contact me so I can trash talk them. :wtf2: :confused: I have NO interest in SPH and it pisses me off to be bothered by these men.
 

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Hi
open segregation is cool but why stop at small/average dicks, hell how can any one that doesn't have a upward curve like mine really have any valid "support" for me? i mean how can they really know what i go though when the pressure of said upward curve hits my wife's g spot and all I'm left with is a pool to swim in.
ok the above is a little over dramatic but really now what problems does a big dick guy have that others don't? i have read these posts inside and out and more often then not it's emotional then physical, and even the physical problems can happen to any one, you do not have to have a big dick to have the same problems, you just need a smaller then average girl ( or boy ) to have problems.
What i'm saying is its all relative to your experiences and that does not mean you can then segregate poeple based on anything, that does not mean you have to except every ones advice or even talk to them.
I just think that we should of learned by now segregation is not cool at all, especialy when based on a pyshical feature.

just my views only.
 

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I guess that i'm one of the guys he's talking about. i have a small dick. i don't really "belong" here. I'm not so much an admirer of big dicks as I am envious of the men, gay or str8, who have them. But you guys have the right to limit your group however you want, i respect that.
 
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I have to agree with the previous poster.

The think I like most about this forum/site #1 That it exists and has helped me dael with a lot of issues. Better now. The other thing I like is the diversity Str8, gay, bi, Black, White, Asian that is what keeps the forum alive and interesting. Reading the "debates" that go on are great and stimulating especially when they are intelligent ones. I like things just the way they are. :rolleyes:

Diversity is what makes this site interesting. Many topics are interesting on this forum and I read them. I have never found it to be a problem for me to be just "average" on this site. I know that I cannot compete on size, so I don't bother trying. I am satisified with being my size and simply examine other areas of this site that don't refer to size comparisons
 

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I joined this site to see what problems that others might have in having a larger penis and what they've done to help with it. I've appreciated the advice and input. The sph gets a little old, but do enjoy hearing thoughts of those with average to small penises. I don't know what it's like to have a small or average penis, but it's good to get all sorts of insight from everyone. It's a great site because of the involvement of everyone.
 

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At the risk of breathing a little life into this 7 to 9 year old thread (that better deserves to lie quietly in its grave) I'll go ahead and throw in my 2¢ worth.

I first joined this site because I found its premise to be humorous. And many of its threads emphasized that humor. But I've stayed on because I also found many of the participants to be stimulatingly insightful and intelligent in discussing a wide variety of topics. It is also a forum that freely allows addressing topics that are difficult to broach elsewhere.

As for those who feel that certain types of people should not be allowed membership, I would offer the following:

Without question the human male psyche seems to be hung up (puns intended) on penis size. As long as that is true, anyone and everyone who either has a penis or enjoys interacting with penises is affected, for better or for worse, by penis size and is in my own view fully qualified to participate in this forum.
 
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Well said @Silvertip ...to add that there are some of us who are not obscenely hung have friends who are and had to have many talks with them and their feelings; especially before the creation/knowledge of places like this. Having to assure someone that their "member" is not an issue or having to do a "pants check" before heading out because they are very self conscious about showing they have much of anything down there; gets a little daunting when you have no point of reference for them to rely upon.