should i ask him?

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GoneA said:
I think the orginal poster has, more than likely, come to a conclusion.

Nah, I bet he is sitting there, still scratching his head.. though now it is from a bad case of crabs he got from his "inexperienced ex-bestfriend":biggrin1:
 

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NO! NO! NO!

don't risk losing your wife, your best friend, your other friends, and family, is it really worth it? I hope the fuck that what everybody is telling you is sinking through to your head, your life will be so fucked up if you make any move on him.
 

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Life is not Brokeback Mountain: where two men marry and go about their lives, but then meet up and try to get back together.

We know how that turned out: Ennis was the one with the broken heart. :frown:
 

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trashy65 said:
so you dont think i should?

Here's an idea, you could get the other two (wives) to join in as a foursome and then in the dark you could pack his fudge and simply claim it was a case of mistaken identity if it's not popular with the others ?
 

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Step 1:

Get the two couples together have a few drinks and then suggest a game of naked Twister when you all are completely blotto.

Step 2:

As for the should I ask him? Approach this matter in a lighthearted way and confidencially. Ask him if he finds you attractive and if he ever desired you sexually. At least you will find out what his feelings are on this subject without making any sexual advances. I don't know if both wives are bisexual swingers, but that would be a big help in this situation.