So I started seeing this girl and whenever we make out I won't get 'rock hard' so to say, and whenever she gives me a handjob I still don't get fully hard. I can get hard on my own easily, and have never had a problem before. I'm wondering if maybe its just because she has too soft of a touch? Do some guys just not get off on handjobs? I've heard of being nervous but I'm positive its not that. I'm really not too concerned, but I think it might bother her seeing that i'm not fully hard. Could I just be conditioned to my own touch? Can I fix this? Sorry for all the questions Any advice is much appreciated.