Should I be concerned?

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So I started seeing this girl and whenever we make out I won't get 'rock hard' so to say, and whenever she gives me a handjob I still don't get fully hard. I can get hard on my own easily, and have never had a problem before. I'm wondering if maybe its just because she has too soft of a touch? Do some guys just not get off on handjobs? I've heard of being nervous but I'm positive its not that. I'm really not too concerned, but I think it might bother her seeing that i'm not fully hard. Could I just be conditioned to my own touch? Can I fix this? Sorry for all the questions

Any advice is much appreciated.
 
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I don't get off on handjobs or bj's but I do always get rock hard. Maybe you have performance anxiety?

Or she could just be bad at handling cock, many girls are. Even the ones that think/say they're 'good'...hmm.

Pussy > any other sexual activity. Go for the pussy.
 

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If you're thinking about how hard your tool is, it's not going to get as hard as you want. Focus instead on what feels good, and your rod will take care of itself.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. Its about as far as I've gone with a girl to be honest, so I guess I might just be use to my touch.. It could be anxiety but im fairly certain its not.
 

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It is anxiety. You need to let nature and your libido do their jobs. Talk with your girl, tell her what you like, ask her what she likes, let each of you teach the other. You will soon have some awesome sex and both be satisfied.
 

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What Scottish.47 said. Once you are over your anxiety you will be back to normal.

It is anxiety. You need to let nature and your libido do their jobs. Talk with your girl, tell her what you like, ask her what she likes, let each of you teach the other. You will soon have some awesome sex and both be satisfied.