-started fuckin a girl in my work building.
-she asked what we were, we both said we dunno yet lets just be fwb's and see what happens
-she brought emotions into it.
-also kept holding my hand/cuddling etc.
-i brought it up, "whats up friends arnt suppose to do this stuff".....she said she really likes me but isnt sure what she wants and lets just keep having sex.
-sex stops,kissing/cuddling is more often.
-for like the 3rd time we have another talk......im like ehy, if we are FWB where is the sex, friends arnt suppose to doing this other shit thats bf/gf crap. and again for the 2nd or 3rd time she tells me she really likes me and isnt sure what she wants, but lets keep having sex and be friends blah blah blah. mean while there is no sex, and im like, yea but there is no sex.......then shes like yea yea i want to but from my history its making it hard i feel you are using me.(she was raped, and had a few relationships where the guys just used her)
-im putting up with all this mess thinking its from her past as she has brainwashed me into thinking so many times. so im hanging around because i like her and she is showing signs.......
-then tonight she tells me......"dont get mad but i just want to tell you i have a bf". and that she hopes this doesnt ruin are friendship.
so should i fuckin stick around? i told her 3243242x i dont give a fuck just always be honest with me. and it took her a month to tell me........the same time she stopped having sex. we never went out...and its not like she used me because i only took her to dinner 2 times.......i did buy her beer alot but that also benifited me
it just makes me mad because i was always there for her when she was bringing her shit into the FWB's part. and that i made it clear i dont give a fuck, just always be honest with me.......then she told me a month later she got a bf?
like wtf would you be telling me you like me and holding my hand and shit.........
what should i tell her?
-she asked what we were, we both said we dunno yet lets just be fwb's and see what happens
-she brought emotions into it.
-also kept holding my hand/cuddling etc.
-i brought it up, "whats up friends arnt suppose to do this stuff".....she said she really likes me but isnt sure what she wants and lets just keep having sex.
-sex stops,kissing/cuddling is more often.
-for like the 3rd time we have another talk......im like ehy, if we are FWB where is the sex, friends arnt suppose to doing this other shit thats bf/gf crap. and again for the 2nd or 3rd time she tells me she really likes me and isnt sure what she wants, but lets keep having sex and be friends blah blah blah. mean while there is no sex, and im like, yea but there is no sex.......then shes like yea yea i want to but from my history its making it hard i feel you are using me.(she was raped, and had a few relationships where the guys just used her)
-im putting up with all this mess thinking its from her past as she has brainwashed me into thinking so many times. so im hanging around because i like her and she is showing signs.......
-then tonight she tells me......"dont get mad but i just want to tell you i have a bf". and that she hopes this doesnt ruin are friendship.
so should i fuckin stick around? i told her 3243242x i dont give a fuck just always be honest with me. and it took her a month to tell me........the same time she stopped having sex. we never went out...and its not like she used me because i only took her to dinner 2 times.......i did buy her beer alot but that also benifited me
it just makes me mad because i was always there for her when she was bringing her shit into the FWB's part. and that i made it clear i dont give a fuck, just always be honest with me.......then she told me a month later she got a bf?
like wtf would you be telling me you like me and holding my hand and shit.........
what should i tell her?