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Are you in good shape? I cannot tell from youe pictures. Sometimes it could be that and the man doesnt know how to say anything. I dunno, im sorry ur in this situation.
Have been so patient for so long. I'm getting desperate. How can I make my husband take our lack of a sex life seriously? This has been going on for several years. He agrees it's a prob and vows to work toward change but then doesn't. Advice? Men or women of lpsg - what can I do to show him I'm serious and need him to take me seriously??
Wow. Some of these answers....
If he's on antidepressants, that could well be the cause of his reduced or nonexistent libido. Last I checked, Wellbutrin was the only antidepressant that didn't lower libido in males, but that may've changed since. Might be worth talking to his prescribing doctor about it.
Also, he may have ED issues, related to the antidepressants or not. But if that's the case, there's a helluva lot he could do, besides penile intercourse, to get you off. If he does have ED issues, he may be feeling too humiliated and depressed to discuss them. Our culture is brutal toward men who can't get it up.
And no, the fact that he's not screwing you doesn't mean that he's either closeted and gay, or getting it somewhere else. He could simply be masturbating as an outlet, or his libido may be so low (due to antidepressants or hormonal issues) that he just doesn't feel the urge.
Personally, if you're in a monogamous relationship, I wouldn't advise cheating. It rarely ends well. I'd advise talking about it -- without accusations, recriminations, or ultimatums, and seeing if you both can't work out a solution together. It may be "Don't ask, don't tell." It may be a threesome or cuckolding. It may be polyamory. It may be monogamy with sex toys, or with him learning to be a finger or tongue artist.
And if he isn't willing to change anything, and still demands monogamy, then you have some tough decisions to make. And I wouldn't envy you any of them.
Best of luck to you, in any case. Hoping you find a workable and acceptable solution for you both.
Whenever you can get away with it masturbate right in front of him, eventually he'll get it and get with it.Have been so patient for so long. I'm getting desperate. How can I make my husband take our lack of a sex life seriously? This has been going on for several years. He agrees it's a prob and vows to work toward change but then doesn't. Advice? Men or women of lpsg - what can I do to show him I'm serious and need him to take me seriously??
That didn't work for me. He just asked me to go to the living room until I was done. Should have left him then and there. We are much better as friends than we were as a couple. I'm much happier. He's not, but there's nothing I can do about that.Whenever you can get away with it masturbate right in front of him, eventually he'll get it and get with it.
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That didn't work for me. He just asked me to go to the living room until I was done....
The questions people ask on this site. Would a straight guy let a gay guy blow him and now should a female cheat on a guy to get his attention? First off no person who had class would cheat period or tolerated anybody cheating on them. Second females love to say sex isn't important and accuse guys of only wanting sex. If this was the case then why is sex so important to females then? 3rd why are relationships so important to females? There is more to life than relationships.
Do something else with your life besides worry about sex or relationships how about that? Try to better yourself, become a better person. Read a book, go back to school or go to school and learn a skill. Do something important with your life.
Do something else with your life besides worry about sex or relationships how about that? Try to better yourself, become a better person. Read a book, go back to school or go to school and learn a skill. Do something important with your life.
Have been so patient for so long. I'm getting desperate. How can I make my husband take our lack of a sex life seriously? This has been going on for several years. He agrees it's a prob and vows to work toward change but then doesn't. Advice? Men or women of lpsg - what can I do to show him I'm serious and need him to take me seriously??