should i do gay porn?

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  1. D_Bobby Bullwhip

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    keep getting asked to do this by loads of folk, treasure island media have now asked me, yes seriously!
    trouble is nobody knows i go both ways and this would mean a major change of lifestyle for me etc, i have a very macho job and stuff. always been a fantasy of mine tbh.
    any ideas?
     
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    its allways good to give in to a fantasy from time to time man.....

    it could be a stepping stone
     
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    in see what your saying but i have a totally straight lifestyle so to speak and all my mates are straight and its the last thing aywould expect.
    the cash is phenomenal but it would mean moving and resettling etc.
     
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    It happened to Simon Rex when he did three j/o sessions for Club 1821. But that's all he did. He seemed to love being watched when the camera came to play, but that got him fired by MTV when they discovered he did that when he was only 19. It was only three harmless j/o sessions. One is a bicycle scene. The other is him getting turn on by gay porn in the living room and pretending that he was doing it(that was hot). The other is the pool scene. It depends on you. Hey, if it did work for Simon Rex, Peter North, and some of the straight ilk of porn, it could work for you, you know.
     
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    If I ever considered doing porn, it would be Treasure Island Media. Their stuff is incredibly hot. Jessie O'Toole is the man!
     
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    did peter north do gay porn?
     
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    If you are gonna do porn shouldnt you want to do it with a company who insist on safe sex practices to begin with, because as far I know the company you are being offered work from is a bare back one is it not ?
     
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    Heck yeah. It was fantastic stuff.
     
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    There are some scenes with condoms, but most are bareback.
     
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    it is bareback yes but thats one of my fantasys, they do test if required however.
     
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    Yes his name was Matt Ramsey and he was a bareback bottom.
     
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    What do you mean if required ? Isn't it mandatory ?

    If it is something you really want to do and you are okay with people finding out somehow down the line,then go for it man. But for me personally, if I was ever gonna do porn I would do it with either Falcon or a similar company that always has safe sex practices just for the amount of STDs out there and how you can easily pick up one.
     
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    First of all, porn isn't an easy industry to be in. You've the option of working under another name, and hiding that you do it - but at some point, someone is bound to see you.

    The question really comes down to if your comfortable with that. If you said to yourself "I can do this, I wont tell anyone but if they find out I wont hide it" then go for it.

    But if you can't, then I'd say the industry isn't for you.

    Ty

    (saying that I want a signed copy of your first release)
     
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    What he said...you would have to be crazy not to have safe sex! It's a matter of life and death!
     
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    My friend, you are a very young man. Please heed my advice and practice Safe Sex. I do not intend to preach to you and my advice is somewhat hypocritical in that I share your fantasy for bareback sex. A sex scene loses some of its edge when I see a condom. But be glad that there is someone else who is willing to take that risk for your entertainment. I love sex. Even at my age I can hardly get enough. Seven days a week and I still would love more. That makes me love my partner even more because I know he is healthy and trust him to be safe. Sex is a very small part of the pleasure the world holds for you if you are healthy. Be happy with yourself and leave your fantasies as they are…fantasies.
     
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    good advice that, thank you.
     
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    QFT

    Safety first! Then, enjoy as much as you can!
     
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    Also if you do Treasure Island or bareback scenes, it could ruin your chances with other porn companies. Some them refuse to use porn stars that have done bb.
     
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    OK, a few questions:
    1) Would you mind if your mother found out?
    2) Would you mind if your father found out?
    3) Would you mind if your friends found out?
    4) Would you mind if your enemies found out?
    5) Would you mind if your boss or work colleagues found out?
    6) Would you mind if any future employer found out?
    7) Would you mind if any future partner found out?

    If the answer to any of those is no, don't do it. If you're fine with all of those, that's fine. I did some a few years back and a guy I worked with bought one. It took about five minutes to go round the whole company.

    As Ohiospeedo said, a lot of the companies won't take the risk of hiring anyone who's done bareback, so if you go down that route, you're pretty much tied to that company if you want to stay in the industry.

    Have you done any screen tests? Are you sure you can get it up on command and shoot on cue? It's all very well being able to do that on camera in your own bedroom at home, but when you're on set with a full crew and co-stars waiting for you, having done god knows how many scene changes, lighting changes etc, it's a different ballgame. Are you totally versatile? Most guys, when they start out, are lucky if they can pick what they end up doing, or, for that matter, who with, and not everyone is a gorgeous musclebound hunk or a hairy daddy, but you've still got to be able to perform with them.

    It's not a job for everyone, but if you've got what it takes and you want to do it, go for it. Just remember though that once you've done it, there will always be pictures of you out there and if you end up in a job where it would be frowned upon, it can be grounds for instant dismissal or a public scandal. It's not something that you just do for the hell of it on a Saturday afternoon and forget about because it could affect the rest of your life.

    Hope this helps, and good luck with whatever you decide to do.
     
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