Should I do it?

[1airgead]

I'm a str8 male who is (unfortunately) getting a divorce-actually in a week I'll be legally single.

Unrelated, I've always had the fantasy of being caught watching a porn and as punishment for paying more attention to the cock in the video, I would have to give a very well endowed man a handjob. I thought if I ever wanted to experience that fantasy, now would obviously be the time. I certainly wouldn't want to cultivate a relationship with some guy (I'm str8 blalblablabla) in order to check this fantasy out.

I have used backpage.com for escorts before. When the girls came over, I always let them know that it's my last week here in town before my lease is up, so I wouldn't get any surprise visits, though the girls really aren't into that...just out there to make a buck.

There are some studs who advertise their services of Backpage.com in my area. Has anyone here ever tried this? I thought it'd be a quick no strings attached way to try it and never see the individual again.

Thoughts/input?

 

[mitchymo]

why is it a fantasy? i mean what are you so interested by?

 

[v32bone]

I also have this fantasy. Jut like the feel of manmeat in my hand and looking for someone in DE area...

 

[1airgead]

to ask "why" is pointless. I wouldn't sooner try to explain my fantasy than I'd try an explain why I like a certain colour. You're Gay, so you wouldn't get it. It's a str8 man thing, period.

v32, got to Free classifieds - backpage.com and click on "male escorts"

see what you can find....

 

[mitchymo]

to ask "why" is pointless. I wouldn't sooner try to explain my fantasy than I'd try an explain why I like a certain colour. You're Gay, so you wouldn't get it. It's a str8 man thing, period.

v32, got to Free classifieds - backpage.com and click on "male escorts"

see what you can find....

a pretty hostile reaction to an inquiring mind.

as a gay guy i obviously don't have fantasies so no i would'nt understand the str8 guy thing of wanting to give another 'well endowed' (str8?) guy a handjob

Str8 guy thing my ass.

My fave colour is black because i like the neutrality of it and that unlike white does not seem so 'empty'. Explain it and try me, i'm not incapable of understanding because i'm gay, all shouts of internal homophobia at the minute.

 

[1airgead]

Ok I knew it'd come out wrong ..no pun intended.

I've just always wanted to stroke a big cock. My divorce is just going through, and I thought I'd like to try it, but I wanna be discreet. I'm not into going to a bar and "meeting someone." I just wanna pay, do it and forget about it,....BUT I wanted to hear from others who might've tried such and get their feedback...

sorry for the snapping...it wasn't meant..

 

[swimmersox]

Look, I'm hardly one with vast experience in this area, but really, just take a look at Craigslist "men seeking men" and/or "casual encounters/m4m" and you will find LOTS of guys in your area (assuming it's not rural Montana or something) perfectly willing to do just about exactly what you are looking for for FREE -- or even willing to pay YOU for it.
Assuming you are not hugely overweight, very old, or just terrible looking, I think you'll find the 'market' for your kind of fantasy is pretty brisk.
Good luck!
[P.S.: I'd be curious as to other guys' reaction to what I've just posted. One thing that's struck me in browsing on these free online hookup sites is that it is MUCH easier to find guys willing to do this than women. Frustrating, yes, but I guess understandable.]

 

[LittleDicky]

To the OP:

I mostly lurk here. But.....

I'm constantly amazed and befuddled at the number of "straight" men who want to look at, handle, and suck a dick. That's not "straight." Sexual attraction is on a continuum. Very few people are either 100% straight or gay.

Why not drop all labels (and pretense) and just be yourself? Be what you are, and do what ever feels good. But why, in the process, must you insist that you are "straight?" Who are you trying to convince? Yourself? Do you know how dumb that sounds?

I don't get it. :confused13:

As Mitchymo said above: "Str8 guy thing my ass."