I went with a friend whose brother goes to SMU to watch Rice-SMU game and then to a party at a frat house off campus where there were about even mix of guys and gals. At the end of the night or rather morning, the guy I was with, who seemed to be a complete gentleman, took me to meet my girlfriend for our drive back home, close to a 7 hour drive. He wanted to see me this saturday and I agreed to the date. Today at school, I find out from my friend some second hand information that this guy had a $500 bet with 5 or 6 other guys that he would 'bang' me, his words, by the second date. I was furious. My friend is very reputable and she confirmed these details with SMU friends how she found out and it all made sense. He's suppose to call me tonight......should I do the right thing and confront the bastard tonight on the phone and call off the date Saturday or wait for him to drive 7 hours to turn him down. The latter is what I'm leaning toward right now. Any ideas ladies.....ladys' responses will carry more weight because after reading a lot of these forums I know what the guys will say. Gone to work out.