Should i get circumsized

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  1. yesm

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    hey guys new here i'm 20 kinda small for the groups in here (8 inches) i was wondering if i should get circumsized. I mean when i was little i was going to get it done the doctor said that it was good for me and my mom had no objection, my dad on the other hand said to be left alone and that it should be my decision (i remember this because i was 3). Well now that i'm 20 lately i've seen many circed guys and it kinda makes me feel conscious about me having a foreskin. I mean is fine when hard because there's almost no difference (besides the frenulum) but when is soft then it makes me feel weird. Such has been this affinity to circumcision that i have tried to get the feeling of being circed by taping the foreskin w/bandage tape when is retracted and it actually seems that when i masturbate like this is much more pleasurefull (lube is needed though). Also i want to be circed for the looks of it mainly but i'm not sure if i should because i kinda also want to be able to be a model for a sculpture, you know with the perfect complete man, and i think that if we have a foreskin is to protect us from the environment even if is not pretty. So this puts me in a dilema and would love an answer from anyone specially from guys that have been circumsized at a later age (not @ birth), thnx.
     
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    How can lopping your foreskin off make you a complete man, taking bits away doesn't indicate completeness?

    It's your dick, your choice, but remember, if you don't like it there's no going back.
     
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    i mean complete man meaning having a foreskin but getting circumsized seems more asthetic to most women/men so idk if i should
     
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    There are lots of people who prefer foreskin, why would you alter yourself because of what other people think?
     
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    Hey dude , just go by the smell. If you have a hassle with odor then you would have to decide the risk is worth it.
    A strong odor issue is the only time I have read on forums where the guy was happy to get it done.
    What makes you think foreskin is ugly?
    It isn't ,trust me, and I am very picky.
    Also 8 is not small. It is a very good and above average size. Sex feels so amazing with an uncut penis,especially if you have to use a condom.
    You should keep your foreskin because it will help with having sex with women who cannot tolerate large size as easy.
    I used to be one of them so I know.
    20 is too young to decide.You should just assume that you have the most beautiful cock around and just pretend it is true and the women may believe it too.
    Maybe, posting pics will give you a better idea of how attractive you penis may actually be.
    Best wishes,Sug
     
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    I would love to see an answer from a guy who has at least thought about this or someone that has or is living in america who might know how the situation is.
     
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    Post a pic so we can see what is at stake. Take into account that your skin will continue to grow, get thicker, over the years, so my advice is don't cut yourself short, young man. Circumcision is nothing but mutilation.
     
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    TBH yesm, I would ONLY concider a circ if it's a medical requirment, otherwise leave well alone.

    As for myself, I am facing a circ after damaging my frenelium and a resulting frenuoplasty failing, and thus making matters worse.

    With any sort of medical operation carries risk, and as you can see from my previous words I fell fowl of this risk.

    Your cock is an important part of you, don't put it at risk where possible.
     
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    you look great. i would say keep your skin if you enjoy it.

    most of my partners have been indfiferent to my foreskin
     
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    It is not like shaving off your hair to try the bald look for a while, they growing your hair back again.
    Think before you act; but no matter your decision, all will be well
     
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    As I see this thread it makes me think, that I have been pondering this decision for about a decade. I'm coming to the point that I might just go thru with it. I don't want to pass another 10 years thinking about it. I have gone to the length of getting a shang ring and everything needed for this circumcision. Just still thinking in the pros and cons. I really don't want to do something I regret. Any guys out there who have gotten cut as adults?
     
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    There's plenty of guys here who have gotten circumcised as adults. Use the search function here and also look through the healthy penis forum.

    If you want a female perspective... 8 inches is big, even for here. Don't risk damaging your cock, including potent ending up with scars after the procedure. If ppl don't want you or don't want to have sex with you just because you aren't cut, then that's stupid and they aren't worth it anyway.
     
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    It's up to you if you think its better go for it. PS 8inch is huge!
     
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    Don't do it.
     
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    You have to be comfortable in your own skin . Pun intended . It sounds as if you have already made your own decision which is good because it is your decision . Your going to here an argument for both . I say this because most threads on this subject (circumcision) usually end up that way . I am circumcised and prefer circumcised . Not all cocks are pretty to look at either way,as one of the posters stated , I am also very picky and I think your cock looks pretty nice . I really get pissed off at these guys who call it mutilation especially to the uncut men who had the procedure done due to medical reasons. Variety is the spice of life .
     
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    Since this Thread is NINE years old and the OP is now 29 the question is did you do it and how are you now feeling about it??
     
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    Well, I think your cock is very handsome as it is. Personally I wouldn't do it - too many risks for a needless op. Aren't there more important things in life to focus on?
     
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    I would never be circumcised! Love that hood--the way it feels over my head, the extra pleasure when I piss through it, how it feels when cock grows!
     
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    I will be blunt and say HELL NO! I wish they would have left me alone when I was born. Everyone who I have encountered said that the sensation of having the sink run back and forth is killer. If it was medically necessary then ya but other then that no.
     
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