Should I have gone for it?

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  1. bigshy

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    This past weekend my best bud and I went on a weekend golf trip. After drinking heavily for several hours, the conversation turned to sex, like it always does when we drink together. He mentioned that he needed to shower and trim up. I said that I had trimmed a week ago. I told him I had a new trimmer that shaves close but will not cut. It a Norelco trimmer, about the size of a pen. He said great and that he would love to use it. During our conversation about needing to trim up, I told him how jealous I was of his great bubble butt and reached around and gave it a firm squeeze. He said "Yeah, but you've got that big fucking dick" as he reached out and cupped my balls. This was the first time in all the times he's seen me naked that he acknowleged how big my dick is. I had caught him sneeking a glance here and there but his actually saying it made me feel great.

    After showering he called me into the bathroom asking for the trimmer. I offered to do it for him since he was pretty drunk. I'm bi (NO ONE knows) and he is straight. He dropped his towel and said help yourself. My heartbeat immediately increased. I had seen him naked many times but this was the first time I got to touch him. He was really hairy because he said he hadn't trimmed in a couple of months. He's not a hairy person, just has a lot of pubes.

    He's somewhat small but has a great looking cock. It has a dark skinned shaft but the head is light colored. He tans well but given this time of year he's a little pale. I am in heaven. He's standing there holding up his balls while I'm on my knees trimming them and his gouch. I clean up his stomach leaving his goody trail. I trim down his shaft and his groin area. Somehow I have avoided getting a raging hard on. Guess it was all the alcohol. I told him "I guess you would freak out if I sucked your dick right now huh?" He said "Yeah, I probaby would". DAMN!

    I finish up the front and tell him to turn around. He puts his hands up on the wall and spreads his feet slightly so I can shave his ass. He has such a great tight bubble ass and a hole surrounded by a light covering of hair and darker skin. I finish his cheeks and start trimming his crack when he reaches back and stops me. He says "That's enough. I don't want to shave there". I said "Okay, but it's my turn now" He said he needed to smoke first. So we go out on the balcony and hit the pipe and then we come back in. He hits his bed and says he's done for the night. I said "Oh no, you owe me a shave." I grab his hand and pull him up and lead him into the bathroom. He grabs the trimmer and starts shaving my belly, balls, shaft and gouch. I am dripping pre-cum at this point but he doesn't say anything about it. He finishes up the front and tells me to turn around. He then starts shaving my ass and trims up my crack as well.

    We then clean up and head off to bed when he starts to tell a story about an employee that works for him that he's dying to bang. At this point I am pulling on my hard cock as he is basically telling his sexual fantasy in full detail. The only disappointment is he is not hard nor is he rubbing himself. He looks up just before he passes out to see me shoot across my chest. He says "Good job. You'll sleep good now". I would really have liked to suck his dick, but want him to initiate it. Should I have gone for it when I brought it up?
     
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    do str8 men do this sort of behavior on any regular basis?
     
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    Not at all.
     
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    your mistake was asking...Guess it was all the alcohol. I told him "I guess you would freak out if I sucked your dick right now huh?" He said "Yeah, I probably would". DAMN!

    you should have just done it. if he had freaked out, you could say you were really drunk, then fake throwing up in the toilet, since you were already in the bathroom.

    how did he say ,
    "Yeah, I probably would". was it jokingly or serious? if it was serious, then you did the right thing.

    i
     
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    Well you didnt go for it. There's no point wondering "what if" & just focus on how many more great times you have ahead with someone who is obviously a very good mate.
    You both seem very comfortable with being nekkid together & that can only be a good thing for future things between you. He doesn't blush when you're dripping in precum & seems happy to shave yer junk. He may just be slightly curious because it's you & he's very relaxed with you & not in the slightest threatned. He's also chilled about helping you to blow a load & recognises your needs... even if (when he's tired, drunk & wrecked) he can't become physically involved. Enjoy what you have with him & let hime come around. I suspect he needs a little more encouragement before he completely chills & takes your friendship to a special level. Be patient with him.
     
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    i agree with Scot. Sounds like he's on the road to more at a later time
     
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    Dude next time you guys get together wait until he is a little drunk then put a str8 porno on. I am pretty sure you will be sucking his dick in no time and he will be sucking yours too.
     
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    No, you should not have gone for it. He wasn't the least be aroused by your touching or shaving.

    That in and of itself shows lack of interest.

    You did the right thing.

    Sklar
     
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    Think in terms of the future. It sounds very much like there is a future here.
     
  10. bigshy

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    Thanks for all the feedback guys. I look forward to the next time he and I get together. I do regret not going for it like Tulsa said. And I think you have great advice Scot.

    Thanks for the suggestion jeepguy2!

    Any and all suggestions/comments are welcome.
     
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    instead of asking about sucking him i would have given him a little tug while you were touching his dick and after seeing his reaction to that, go from there. he was already cool with you touching his cock and if he got upset about you jerking him real quick you could have just said it was a combination of you just joking around and being drunk.
     
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    You have what some of are lucky to have - a great straight friend who is comfortable with you & clearly cares deeply about you too. I have two & I've stood at an open air concert with my hands down the front of his jeans & my dick pressed against his ass. The other has followed me to my bathroom proclaiming his love for me (which made me surprisingly pee shy). We have such great open friendships & although the crush seemed intense for a long while they relaxed to just being two mates that are happy with being together & knowing we have something special. It sounds like you have that in abundance with your friend too & he is fine because its you he cares for. Some people don't have that with their straight friends. Treasure it.
     
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    I'll bet he went home and if he was not too drunk, he will remember what you did (and didn't do) ... I'll be he will be thinking on this himself wondering... what is the next step.
     
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    Id love to know what was going through his mind the next day too.
     
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    Yeah if you do something after you have had a few beers and he gets pissed, you can always appologize and blame it on being drunk.:wink:
     
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    Ding, ding, ding... That was my bullshit-o-meter going off. Nice read, but seems more like fantasy than reality. Sorry, I'm a skeptic
     
  17. bigshy

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    Your meter is broken DQ. This happened completely as I described. But I know how you feel. A lot of what I read I'm skeptical also.

    Our friendship has progressed over the past 6 years and is now at the stage described. I truly feel he will welcome a blow job over time, but he may never reciprocate. And I'm certain it's one of those things where it's only induced by alcohol and would never be brought up after sobering up. I never see it going any further than that, but if it happens every time we get plastered together, I'm fine with that.
     
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    you shaved each other's cocks and asses... isn't that enough said to know you could have done more? That just doesn't happen with straight friends.
     
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    I don't have any straight friends who would let me put my hands down their pants in private, let alone in public. :frown1:
     
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    That's a shame Swede. Im just glad I do & can treasure the fact we're chilled & have relaxed over the years.
     
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