Long time reader, first time poster. My wife and I have been successfully losing weight this year, so she wants to take our measurements (chest, waist, etc.) to see how those numbers change in addition to how our total weight changes. Given how much of a turn on the topic of penis size is to me, I think I want to have her measure my dick while she's measuring everything else. I'm pretty sure it would be an amazing turn-on. My concern is that she'll actually have a concrete number as to how big I am then. I'm very much in the average portion of the bell curve, at about 6 inches. Now, we've been married for two years, but together for eight. The only thing she's ever said about my size is when she comments about how big I am when I'm hard. Obviously, I know I'm not huge, but I think it's a pretty standard thing women say to their lovers. I do know she has been with two guys in the past. One was smaller, but the other was apparently a decent amount bigger. Judging by things she said when she was drunk while we were first dating, I'd guess he was about eight inches. Like most women though, I don't think she's great at estimating. On the rare occasions I've heard her talk to her girlfriends about sex, she has spoken pretty highly about my size. Now, I don't know if that's her talking me up with our muual friends, or if she really believes I'm big. So my concern is that she might be thinking in her head that I'm 7 or 8 inches, but if I let her measure me with a ruler, she'll find out I'm only 6. Since I know I'll find the actual measuring to be a huge turn-on, should I ask her to do it, or am I kind of opening Pandora's Box if I do? I would love to hear some opinions, thank you.