Should i regret that my frenulum is removed?

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Hi,

I had my circumcision a year ago, all went well, good result, but one thing bugs me: My frenulum was removed, with just a remnant remaining. The remnant has some sensation if I rub it, and I get an erection. Nothing special. If I use a vibrator on the area, I get a tickling sensation and the feeling of fluid building up. This is different to rubbing the glans to ejaciulation. I've not cum by using the vibrator, the question becomes one of stamina and patience. I guess this is also related to what cut men say that with the removal of the frenulum, you may have delayed ejaculation?

Most guys who are cut say they notice no difference in sensation in the frenulum area, apart from one person on a thread who said he needs to rub the area stronger. I'm not sure which is true. I discussed this with one of the first urologists I saw who said the frenulum is just an artery and the nerves run BELOW it and I went along with this. The surgeon who did my op (someone else) was keen to keep as much sensitive skin as possible so I never mentioned the frenulum (believing what the other surgeon said) and it is mostly removed. However, the frenulum is highly regarded as the male G spot and where most of the feelings in sex come from so I feel that now that it's removed, I will have crap sex? Plus the condom will dull feelings. The surgeon said he removed it due to the chance of it tearing during sex.


Are there any benefits to no frenulum or will I regret this? I can get some very strong and big erections which I could imagine could tear my frenulum (See my other post) but then I'm told that's not a risk.
 
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Ich hatte vor einem Jahr meine Beschneidung: Mein Frenulum wurde entfernt, nur noch ein Rest übrig. Der Rest hat ein Gefühl, wenn ich es reibe, und ich bekomme eine Erektion. Nichts Besonderes. Wenn ich einen Vibrator in der Umgebung benutze, bekomme ich ein Kitzeln und das Gefühl, dass sich Flüssigkeit aufbaut. Dies unterscheidet sich vom Reiben der Eichel zur Ejakiulation. Ich bin nicht mit dem Vibrator abgespritzt, die Frage wird zu Ausdauer und Geduld. Ich denke, das hängt auch damit zusammen, war Schnittmänner sagen, dass Sie mit dem Abstand des Frenulums die Ejakulation verzögert haben?

Die meisten Jungs, die geschnitten haben, die sagen, dass sie im Frenulum-Bereich keinen Unterschied machen. Ich bin mir nicht sicher, stimmt. Ich besprach das mit einem ersten Urologen, der sagte, dass das Frenulum nur eine Arterie ist und die Nerven laufen. Der Chirurg, der meine Operation durchführte, wollte so viel empfindlich wie möglich sein, so dass ich nie das Frenulum (in dem Glauben, war der andere Chirurg gesagt hatte), und es wird größtenteils entfernt. Das Frenulum wird jedoch als männlicher G-Punkt angesehen, und wo die meisten Gefühle beim Sex herkommen, habe ich das Gefühl, jetzt ist da werde ich Mist-Sex haben? Plus das Kondom wird die Gefühle trüben. Der Chirurg sagte, er habe ihn entfernt, weil er beim Sex zerreißen könnte.


Gibt es irgendwelche Vorteile ohne Frenulum oder werde ich das bereuen? Ich kann mir sehr gut und große Erektionen vorstellen, sie könnte mein Frenulum zerreißen (siehe meinen anderen Beitrag). [/ QUOTE]

Ihr Problem ist nicht die Frenulektomie, sondern die Beschneidung. Die Frenulektomie eignet sich besonders für intakte Vorhaut. Denn Sie können die Vorhaut durch dieses Verfahren viel freier bewegen. Das heißt, während der Masturbation kann der volle Hub verwendet werden. Daher können Sie Ihre Vorhaut wie eine Vagina verwenden und die Eichel optimal stimulieren. Außerdem verbleibt die Vorhaut in dem zurückgezogenen Zustand, in dem ich sie möchte. Wenn das Frenulum weg ist, dehnt es sich beim Pumpen des Penis nicht aus. Ich habe mein Frenulum Praeputii vor vielen Jahren selbst entfernt und bin sehr zufrieden mit dem Ergebnis. Ich habe auch keine emotionalen Verluste bemerkt. Ich glaube daher, dass ich dieses Verfahren jedem unbeschnittenen Masturbanten empfehlen kann.:)
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I had my frenulum removed late last year after an initial circumcision in 2015. I think it feels far better - more sensitive than before. I really like it now - looks good and feels much better than before it was excised.
 

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Blade -- no one can say except you. Was your frenulum sensitive before you got cut? Do you feel like you're missing some sensation now?

The frenulum is "regarded as" the "male G-spot" but I haven't really seen any evidence that it's consistently sensitive for every guy. It sure wasn't for me. I cut mine because it didn't really make any difference.
 
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That's the problem.

As I couldn't retract my foreskin when my penis was flaccid, I don't know and will never know how sensitive it was. True, many guys have said their frenulums were never sensitive, mine could have been the same, and many people say that they have no loss of pleasure from removal.

It sucks for me because:

1) There is generally so much hype for this area
2) I struggle with prostate massages as I clench up down there (sometimes I can get a finger in, sometimes I can't), so I can't even experience that source of pleasure instead, as it is highly rated. I hate this as the frenulum is easy to access and manipulate as oposed to the prostate area.

I had a bj without condom today which felt amazing! So my penis is not numb, condom is another story, but even intact guys complain sometimes of lack of feeling with condoms on.
 

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My frenulum was removed, with just a remnant remaining. If I use a vibrator on the area, I get a tickling sensation... I've not cum by using the vibrator

I struggle with prostate massages as I clench up down there (sometimes I can get a finger in, sometimes I can't), so I can't even experience that source of pleasure instead, as it is highly rated.

Okay, two tips for you here dude:

  1. Get a decent vibrator. Most vibrators are crap, especially the cheap ones, especially the battery-powered ones. They produce what people call "buzzy" vibrations, these are vibrations which tingle on the surface of the skin but don't go any deeper. I'm uncut and vibes like this are useless on my frenulum. What you want is a quality rechargeable vibrator which produces "rumbly" vibrations, something which will penetrate through the skin and into the underlying soft tissue. I'd recommend the We-Vibe Tango; it's compact and incredibly powerful, and really gets the job done. Go read some reviews online though. Personally I love mine and it never fails to get me off.
  2. If you're gonna try butt play you need to approach it differently. Forget every guide you've ever read that tells you to "relax" before inserting something; that doesn't work. Simply thinking "well I'm not tensing my sphincter so I guess it's relaxed" won't help you, the trick is to push outwards with the muscle, as though you were going to the loo, and then try to insert the finger/toy at the same time. It makes it so much easier. If you're totally new at it then it's normal for it to feel weird the first few times, and your sphincter might just spasm and clamp down on the toy, but just take it slowly and keep practising.

And just as a final point, no you shouldn't regret that your frenulum is removed, because putting negative energy into dwelling on something which you can't change is the most pointless and unproductive use of your time. You even said yourself that you have no clue if your frenulum was even sensitive before because phimosis prevented you from accessing it, so you're just making yourself upset over an imagined loss. Chances are that whatever skin you have left in that region between the head and the scarline now is as sensitive as it ever was before, because when they "remove" a frenulum all they really do is detach the anchor point where it connects to the head, thus allowing the skin to lie smoothly over the shaft. They don't specifically grab the frenulum and excise all the tissue, so that skin you have left on the underside of your dick is your frenulum skin.
 

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I had a bj without condom today which felt amazing! So my penis is not numb, condom is another story, but even intact guys complain sometimes of lack of feeling with condoms on.

Then you're fine. Even when I had my frenulum, blowjobs didn't feel like much. You're more sensitive than an uncut guy. See? There's nothing wrong.
 

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Thanks guys.

On the anal point, I have tried the idea of pushing out while I push the toy in. Prostate play is a bit pointless solo as I can't really see where I am inserting and have optimal control. What's wierd is on some ocassions an escort has been able to insert a finger and it has felt fine, on other ocassions it's been uncomfortable or not painful, or most recently with the escort that gave the bj, my anus clamped down when the finger went in just half a centremetre. I've had a history of haemerhoids and doctors have put their finger in without such clamping down. It's wierd, every day is different. I do suffer from IBS but it's only mild and the only symptom I have is bloating, which I did not have on these ocassions.

Back to frenulum, I use my prostate massager on the area, which feels good (as described). I'll check out the other toy.