TANNING LOTION, not Tanning Beds... I know this sounds like a stupid question, but if i ask my husband he'll just say "Do whatever you want" I dont want to look silly and all. I have some gradual tanning lotion stuff i bought and i'm debating whether or not to use it. I can't tan in a tanning bed or else i get this severe UV reaction. I'll be swimming a lot this summer and i don't want to be blinding everyone with my skin. Do you think i will look silly with a little bronzer with red hair?