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I'm in a weird head space. I'm in my mid-30's, I haven't had a relationship since my early 20's (which was with a female). I have no interest in getting into a relationship though at this point in my life. I like being independent and being on my own, no one to worry about. I own my own house, have a good job, etc.
As much as I would like to find a woman that I would be interested in, that woman has not appeared and honestly I am not really pressed about it. I don't care about dating or trying to find someone. The only pain point is what other people think- work Christmas parties, weddings, etc.
I have never done anything with a guy. I've been curious my entire life. Now a days I mainly get off on gay porn. I can get off straight or gay porn (but I'm usually focusing on the guy).
At this point in my life though, I don't feel a need to "come out" to friends and family given I have no intention right now to get into a relationship. I could come out as bi I guess, but I don't really think that would matter since I'm not looking for a partner.
I think no matter what I told my parents (who ultimately are the most I'm worried about) they wouldn't really care. I also don't see a point in stirring things up by telling them I'm gay, bi, or anything, since nothing will change.
I guess I see it as it's really none of anyone's business anyways who I'm interested in especially considering there's no one else involved.
Any validation? Words of advise otherwise?
As much as I would like to find a woman that I would be interested in, that woman has not appeared and honestly I am not really pressed about it. I don't care about dating or trying to find someone. The only pain point is what other people think- work Christmas parties, weddings, etc.
I have never done anything with a guy. I've been curious my entire life. Now a days I mainly get off on gay porn. I can get off straight or gay porn (but I'm usually focusing on the guy).
At this point in my life though, I don't feel a need to "come out" to friends and family given I have no intention right now to get into a relationship. I could come out as bi I guess, but I don't really think that would matter since I'm not looking for a partner.
I think no matter what I told my parents (who ultimately are the most I'm worried about) they wouldn't really care. I also don't see a point in stirring things up by telling them I'm gay, bi, or anything, since nothing will change.
I guess I see it as it's really none of anyone's business anyways who I'm interested in especially considering there's no one else involved.
Any validation? Words of advise otherwise?