Yes I'm 23 and I'm a virgin. I've been pondering lately whether or not I should just tell women I'm dating that I'm a virgin. I'm thinking it might take some of the pressure I put on myself regarding the need to have sex/make moves off. Quick background on myself: I have the ultimate curse regarding women. For some reason women have always found me attractive but I had severe social anxiety most of my life and hid away from social interaction until I was about 20/21. You'd think knowing that a lot of women find you attractive would give you the confidence to approach/make moves on women but my extreme shyness always seemed to win that battle. I have made progress, my 1st "real date" was last year and I've now gone out with about 7 women in the last 6-8 months or so. I still have extreme anxiety when it comes to making moves/having sex though. I really want to have sex and I think I'm hurting myself and making it scarier than it is the longer I wait but I just seem to have a barrier when it comes to making a move. I'm thinking that maybe by telling them I'm a virgin it will take a lot of the pressure off thinking about making that move since they'll know I'm inexperienced. What do you guys think?