Principessa
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Some psychological research suggests that the use of corporal punishment does not provide children with the learning opportunities that come with consistent verbal conflict resolution. One of the problems with corporal punishment is that some parents hit their children out of anger and many children die yearly.
It's important to understand some of the cultural issues. For example, many years ago I worked with youth in rural Georgia. There it was totally commonplace for boys, especially teenagers, to be whipped with a belt. In many cases, these children could explain the predictable consequenses of specific behaviors. For example, lying to one's parents would result in three licks. These boys did not seem traumatized, in the least, by this kind of discipline.
Dave
Of course they weren't traumatized. There is a HUGE difference between spanking, whipping, and beating the crap out of your child. the first 2 are disciplinary actions the latter is abusive.
I think the most important thing about what you wrote is that those boys who were occassionally spanked knew that their actions had consequences. Perhaps if parents wern't so GD permissive these days and set boundaries and rules early on, laws like this wouldn't exist.
In our house mom was the disciplinarian. Dad was usually at work when I was acting up and it made no sense to my mother to make me wait for a punishment and I agree. I wasn't what one would call a bad or even mischievious child; however I was spanked with an open hand as a child. I do recall once she hit me with my daddys belt. It's the only whipping for which I can still remember why I got whipped. I had told a lie about my cousin that made her get a whipping. My cousin and I used to stay with my fathers mother a lot. When my mom came to pick me up Nana would summarize our activities for her. My mom knew when my nana told her the events of the day that I was at fault and not my cousin and that I had intentionally lied to get her in trouble. That's why I got whipped. The smacks I used to get on the back of the hand or on my bottom I only vaguely remember and couldn't begin to tell you what I had done to receive them.
Well aren't you friggin' special! :tongue:I agree. I was never spanked as a kid. Not once.
'scuse you! I resent the implication that your parents due to age or whatever are more intelligent than my parents or anyone elses. My parents were older than those of my peers as well. My mother never hit me with a stick, switch, or anything else other than one time with a belt. She also never hit me with her fist.My parents were older and more clever than that. I think parents should exert themselves to rise above physical violence as an attention getting device.
How do we know your parents weren't just lazy or that you weren't some bland milktoast of a child who never did anything warranting a spanking...