um, I think GF was attempting a little humorous sarcasm there, but I don't know. Maybe you should ask him. Plus I never dis my Southern brothers, especially those proud patricians from Vaginyuh.
*sigh* Virginia and Tennessee really were and still are the only aristocracies in the South. Just look at the fine national legislators they've each produced. And the genteel way we speak.
I've been doing some fascinating reading the last couple of years that attempts to explain the miserly, mean-spirited, irascible and occasionally homicidal streak found in that crescent from the Tarheel State to the Magnolia State. Seems a lot of it can be explained by genes. Who would have guessed?
But I digress. I honestly don't know what's holding this country together. Look at any electoral map and one has to wonder the same thing. I do believe the country as a whole will become more "liberal" and accepting of socialization as population density increases. It's a natural consequence of people learning to live together (or perish). The unsavory tendencies we're seeing today (like the inclination to quarantine certain segments of our population in "risk pools" for healthcare) are merely a consequence of the aforementioned irascible types feeling the inevitable squeeze.
The South, the topic of this thread, has numerous wonderful customs, quirks and recipes that I would like to see preserved. Could it function apart? Possibly/probably. Is it different enough to be better off as its own country? The differences are fewer and fewer all the time. It's a moot point anyway, because secession is not unilateral. There's the sticky question of consent from the part you secede
from.
There is nothing wrong with regional pride. We Americans seem to have a dread fear and instinctive resistance to it, as if we'll balkanize. We never had to devolve, as Britain did to grant greater parliamentary powers to Scotland and Wales; we've been federalist from the get-go. But regions never took off. It's somehow OK for New Englanders to see themselves as clubby and insular, but everyone goes into a visceral, full-tilt panic when the South starts talking the same way. Don't even get me started on the flag thing.
The differences are still real. Whether that alone means we should become autonomous regions ("nations" in Catalan-speak) is by no means clear.