Should women be in the military?
Women
are in the military, which will continue without question.
Should there be some revision to guidelines like the pregnancy thing, sure. However, the fact that there's an attempt to keep women on active duty, even by way of draconian measures, proves they are an essential part of the American military.
As explained to me by a recently retired Army ranger: The fear is that women will more easily crack under pressure when taken prisoner. A woman can be beaten and raped into telling confidential, top secret military information. Also, because a woman is physically weaker she will not be as effective in hand to hand combat.
Ranger or not, those arguments are such bullshit. There are slim, 5'4" men serving in the military, is anyone keeping them from the front lines?
Additionally, there are more women beaten and raped by their fellow service people than have been by any enemy forces and that's with women acting in combat duty right now. Somehow, they do not crack and continue to serve with honor even while the system fails, and/or punishes, them when reporting these crimes.
Also, as we have seen from Abu Ghraib, Vietnam, and there are narratives which discuss the same activities in previous wars, men are as subject to rape and sexual torture as women. It merely is taboo to discuss it. However, it happens and gender is no indication to predisposition to "breaking". If there's a real concern, send everyone to enhanced SERE school before they see combat and call it a day.