Should you be embarrass with your Bulge?

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  1. PunkJohn

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    I'm talking about man-bulge...sometimes I think it kinda makes me feel awkward..like specially when girls are around and they see an outline or something down there...what do you think about man-bulge?
     
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    I love when people look at my bulge:)
     
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    I don't have a very big bulge, I'm more of a grower, but I don't like having it show. I guess I'm fine wearing a jock or briefs, because it is balled up and less revealing, but not when it's just dangling.
     
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    Personally I feel you should be proud of your body. However, you have to do what makes you feel comfortable. You may want to try a jock or less revealing pants. But again, I would say just be you. If that includes a bulge, so be it.
     
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    Bulges are hot... Let it show!
     
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    I can definitely see how in some situations a bulge could be embarrassing, and you feel the need to play it down a bit...it's kinda funny, because on the opposite side of the spectrum it can be embarrassing when you're lacking a bulge.
     
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    My bulge when I'm totally hard
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    I just came back from the grocery store. A couple of guys there stared at my package. One was gay and unattractive (looks-eezes, but no feels-eezes), the other straight (eat your heart out dude).

    Be glad you have a bulge that you can tuck or flaunt as you please.
     
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    On a funny note-The most embarrassing bulge is the one that slides out of place and heads down your leg.
    And then you hear "Excuse me sir, there's like a ball of tissue paper hanging out the bottom of your pants, there".
    <awkward silence...cricket...cricket>
    Oh! uhhh...Dammit, There's a hole in my pants pocket. :biggrin1: haha
     
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    i hate having a bulge i think it verges on the perverse and when you can see the whole outline of the shaft and head i think thats not right its kinda indecent exposure. A nice round bump can be hot though.
     
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    Be proud you have one. It's embarrassing to barely have one, as stated above I'm a grower and have somewhat of a self conscious thing with it. I find myself trying on jeans and shorts only to see if they make it show. Sadly that's what determines if I buy the clothes or not. I obviously don't like that flat look up front :-/
     
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    I am not embarrassed...well maybe a little depending on the situation. :redface: I don't want people to think i am some kind of pervert weirdo,:eek::redface: so I do try to hide it as much as I can. Its tough to hide in the summer heat...its HOT in Fla in the summer and my junk hangs way down...tight underwear are out of the question when its that hot.
     
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    I am proud of my body and not at all embarrassed when people look at my bulge. I find it a compliment that they look. Why should men be embarrassed about that part of their body? It's like saying girls should be embarrassed for showing the bulge of their boobs. I have some underwear with push out pouches that helps enhance the look of the bulge even more.

    It's no wonder I read about so many of you who are afraid to wear a real swimming suit to go swimming with (a speedo style suit).
     
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    Dont ever be embarrassed about anything... it serves no purpose.
     
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    if girls can show cleavage then guys can show bulges
     
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    I prefer to hide my bulge from friends. It can get embarassing when none of them have a gay side.

    However I love to show it proud around strangers. I always hope someone will notice and ask about it...maybe leading to something. I want to be in a situation where I get one, and can't do anything to hide it.
     
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    I agree...its the odd double standard...

    okay to show large breasts that you can't 'hide' but...
    NOT okay to show a large penis you can't 'hide' so....

    live with it. can someone hide being tall? short? red headed? big butt?
     
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    I gladly show bulge and don't mind at all, especially when I wear bike tights in the gym or on the road. It's just the way God made me.
     
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    I have no qualms about my bulge showing in public, if anyone is offended they don't have to look at it.
     
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    I show a bulge trough most of my clothing which is both good and bad.

    I love the female attention but there are far more men looking at my junk which makes it kind of akward to me.