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My work is sometimes hard and pushing down my self esteem.
Therefore, from time to time I have this desire for more people to see my cock.
and be impressed.

Gym shower is the obvious place, but even there with normal behaviour I can only be naked for a very short while before and after shower, so most of the times no one sees...

People from my work could come there so I can't be seen as I am showing off in purpose.
So what I did last time is getting into the shower without the soap, and then only when I heared people around I got out of shower like I forgot to take it and started to look for it in my bag.

Any more ideas?
 

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Things might be different in your country, but I know here there isn't really anything that unacceptable about not getting dressed quickly. Especially older men just seem to hang out naked and stand in places where they don't really need to be.

If you really want people to see you, you should keep in mind that some people really don't want to be forced to see you at the gym they are paying for. But, I see plenty of people shower in the open, they don't close the curtain. Sometimes they dry themselves off right outside the shower, then again at their locker, and sometimes they have to make a few trips to get a new towel to dry off and obviously do that naked. Other than that I think the obvious thing is the sauna or steam room if you have either. From my experience, about 50% of the people in either are interested in at least looking.
 
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Walk back and forth with no towel

Air dry under dryer

Stand naked in mirror combing hair

Make small talk with men and not be in a hurry to get dressed

Do shoes and socks first not in a hurry

Walk naked to weigh yourself

Thanks, but it's too obvious.

It must not be seen like I am doing this is purpose.
 

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My work is sometimes hard and pushing down my self esteem.
Therefore, from time to time I have this desire for more people to see my cock.
and be impressed.

Gym shower is the obvious place, but even there with normal behaviour I can only be naked for a very short while before and after shower, so most of the times no one sees...

People from my work could come there so I can't be seen as I am showing off in purpose.
So what I did last time is getting into the shower without the soap, and then only when I heared people around I got out of shower like I forgot to take it and started to look for it in my bag.

Any more ideas?
There is much to be impressed with.
 

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At my local gym, I generally look away from men in locker room...yet this week I have to be honest when I caught a glimpse of a guy with a great body modestly standing near me, with a beautiful swing ...it absolutely took my breath away . I can’t get that image out of my mind
 

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At my local gym, I generally look away from men in locker room...yet this week I have to be honest when I caught a glimpse of a guy with a great body modestly standing near me, with a beautiful swing ...it absolutely took my breath away . I can’t get that image out of my mind
You can come over and clean my house naked on purpose. I'll invite friends over to look at you on purpose. Everyone should be happy!
 
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My work is sometimes hard and pushing down my self esteem.
Therefore, from time to time I have this desire for more people to see my cock.
and be impressed.

Gym shower is the obvious place, but even there with normal behaviour I can only be naked for a very short while before and after shower, so most of the times no one sees...

People from my work could come there so I can't be seen as I am showing off in purpose.
So what I did last time is getting into the shower without the soap, and then only when I heared people around I got out of shower like I forgot to take it and started to look for it in my bag.

Any more ideas?
Since you mentioned getting out of the shower to be seen, I'm assuming that you do not have open showers. Are there any gyms with open showers that you could consider switching to? I also enjoy being seen naked (and not appear to be overly trying to be seen naked), so I've generally tried to find open shower gyms. In addition to in the shower itself, I find that nudity is more acceptable throughout the locker room when there are open showers, so I'm not breaking any cultural norms by walking naked to and from the shower. This means that pretty much every time I work out several men see my penis just as a matter of normal routine
 

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At the gym I used to frequent, I would walk to the shower with towel in hand or over the shoulder and walk back the same. To be fair, there weren't many people in that gym at those hours to begin with, so it wasn't like there were tons of people to see me anyway.
 
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My work is sometimes hard and pushing down my self esteem.
Therefore, from time to time I have this desire for more people to see my cock.
and be impressed.

Any more ideas?

People approach work stress in many ways. Some simply bottle it up, and it leaks out as inappropriate venting on another person, or animals, or objects. Others try to bury it, with alcohol, drugs, food, or sex. With the latter, it is a coping mechanism, in that they try to replace a negative emotion with a positive one.

For example, work is difficult, stressful, and they don't feel valued. After work, they drink and the alcohol makes them feel better. Or, they do a line of coke, or smoke a joint, or eat a favorite food. It is all about replacing the negatives from work by doing something that makes them feel better on some level.

There are great ways to deal with stress, while others can potentially be quite harmful. For instance, drinking on a regular basis can lead to alcoholism. Eating compulsively can lead to obesity, etc.

Regardless of what coping mechanism is used, the stress still remains. So, doing something to try to deal with it doesn't remove the source of the discomfort, anxiety, or feeling of being devalued.

For yourself, you are using sex and exhibitionism to try to increase your self esteem. Personally, I would choose simply working out at the gym, rather than using the gym as a vehicle to deal with work stress in an unhealthy way. Working out in itself will make you feel healthier, more relaxed, and that will help improve your self image.

At any rate, I hope this gives you some food for thought.
 
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I knew a young guy who seemed to be very concerned about his feet and would very carefully dry them for several minutes, sitting naked on his other towel, before putting on his socks first before anything else. I do not believe he was intentionally showing off. Maybe he had experienced a bad case of athlete's foot.
 
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Without knowing detailed answers to any of the items below, I can suggest one way for showing off in your best form and for having the greatest amount of time to be nude and do so.

You need to have one or more buddies who are also open to nude socializing workout and shower (get nude) with you.

If you have one or more guys to talk to, play with, or compete with, you can appear to be uninhibited about lingering nude, showing body parts, or even discussing sexual issues.

Your socializing will overshadow or normalize your nude displays.

**But here is the question**

You would like for other guys to look at your dick and be impressed. The key word here is “impressed”, but I don’t know what that means from your perspective.

After taking a look at the pic you have posted, it appears that you have an attractive youthful body sporting and erotic dick & balls. But exactly what is it that you want me or anyone else to do with that view?

I could write you a book on what the pic does for me, but all those reactions would be based on my personal attractions and history. They would only impact me unless I did something to or for you.

So when someone looks at your dick/balls/body, what will that do for you and how?

And will it make a difference if:
--they are gay
--they are management level employees where you work
--they are your bosses
--they are everyday work associates
--they are straight and married
--they are older or younger than you are
--you are attracted to them
--you are not attracted to them
--they have a body/dick/balls which are more attractive than yours
--they have a body/dick/balls less attractive than yours
--they avoid looking at you
--they take every opportunity to check you out
--they make a move to hook up with you
 
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It's a gym a get for free at my work's building, and I want to show off to guys from my work... not to strangers :)
Gotcha. I've been naked in front of co-workers numerous times over the years, mostly in gym locker rooms...some with open showers, some without. Obviously the open showers have more opportunities for extended nudity, but I managed to work enough in gyms without them. The easiest way is to change by getting stuff in and out of my gym bag (rather than the locker), so i'd place the gym bag on the bench and face outward while changing. I know you don't want to do anything that seems like you're obviously trying to show, but I think that the brief spurts of nudity while changing in and out of underwear are acceptable in even the most prudish of locker rooms. I'm not hung like you, but I like how mine looks on me and I like to show off that I'm "one of the guys", uninhibited about other men seeing my penis in a locker room
 
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My work is sometimes hard and pushing down my self esteem.
Therefore, from time to time I have this desire for more people to see my cock.
and be impressed.

That's the saddest thing I've read on this site ever. Find more fulfilling work. Because you will never be happy if your only sense of pride is something 100% not in your control like dick size, hair color or elbow width.
 
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Isn't there something else in your life that you have accomplished and can be truly proud of?

I can't be proud of anything just handed to me.

Just sayin'
 
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That's the saddest thing I've read on this site ever. Find more fulfilling work. Because you will never be happy if your only sense of pride is something 100% not in your control like dick size, hair color or elbow width.
lmfao
 
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Nothing raises a persons self esteem, like purchasing a new suit. Showing off new well fitting clothes for 8 hours a day, as opposed to peak a boo with your penis for a few minutes, may just be viable solution to your problem

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