I am very small when soft...but then get huge...soft maybe 3", hard 8.5 and when sucked i can get to 9.
I love the look of surprise when first exposed...growing and then all the way out!
I am definately a grower...not a shower
Wow. That definitely fits the definition. I think the "unexpected" factor is an important part of the definition of grower. Kind of like a "sleeper" hot rod car.
You should post a flaccid shot in your gallery.
To help those struggling with the definitions. I don't think these terms are seperate; I beleive they came from the expression "I'm a grower, not a shower"--a way for a guy to "save face" to friends/classmates who have seen him in the shower, swimming, etc, but never seen him hard.
So In my mind, a "shower" is someone who has an impressive-looking cock when soft, regardless of what happens when it gets hard.
Kind of off topic, but is there a thread somewhere about erection "acceleration"? I remember a porn once with a "grower" who went from soft to hard in about 2 seconds flat. wish I could locate it.