So I have an insecurity I need to deal with and wanted to ask if any other members have the same problem. Erect I am 7.5 x 5 I know I am above average, but by no means a monster. The problem is I am a grower approximately 3" to 3.5" soft. I have heard that a shower could be 5" soft and only 7" hard. Is this true I don't have much experience with any other cocks besides my own. Just wondering if every dude with a big bulge has a big unit.