I'm definitely both a "grower" and a "show - er." When my dick is in its most flaccid and smallest state, it is indeed small. Guys might think I'm really cursed with a small dick. However, unlike lots of growers, my dick does not grow straight out erect and hard from its smallest, softest state. The fun and fortunate part is that my penis grows and grows...phenomenally, straight down and long while still soft. Then it continues to grow and angles up into a brick-hard boner! So, when guys see me in the open, "gang" shower at the YMCA, (or sitting in the Y's sauna, steamroom, or on the side of the hot tub) they often see my dick dangling long and soft (or often semi-boned or brick-hard!), especially when there are inshape, hot gay guys showering and cruising around! A large percentage of the men at the YMCA where I work out are gay, so when I'm there, I'm usually a "show - er." :smile: It is also lots of fun, and I get a "kick" out of seeing the expression on a lover's face when he watches my dick grow from really small and flaccid to well-hung and brick hard...the difference in size is really amazing! It also gets the attention of guys in the shower. Since my college days when I lived in the dorm and used the open gang showers there, I've had guys comment on how well-hung I am....I still get these comments at the YMCA or from lovers. LOL I suppose the nicest compliment I got was when a guy asked me, "Is your father a horse?" lol When I'm wearing a jockstrap or a pair of briefs, my dick almost always grows if there is a guy around that I'm attracted to....I always end up with a nice, impressive bulge in my briefs of jockstrap! So, I really wouldn't change a thing about my dick. :smile: