I am definitely a grower which I am happy about for 2 reasons: 1.) I dont have any issues with underwear or pants fitting (other than my balls getting a bit squished from time to time) 2.) and, Its always nice to see a woman's reaction at the difference in size from soft to hard. I guess I'm biased but I think thats how it should be. If it's not in use I really don't want to be thinking about it. Now sure, a nice big bulge would be nice at times, but my balls provide just enough 'lift' to know something's there without being a distraction. unless most of the guys on here are semi-hard when taking their "soft" pics, they must seriously have some issues when wearing clothing (hence the "Support" part of LPSG I guess). I actually think, except in rare cases, most guys are between 3-5 inches when truly "soft"...but I haven't studied the issue and haven't spend a ton of time in locker rooms. This site is really my only reference. I guess the gay guys here would be the best reference on this topic.