socalfreak
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I guess self-control is out of the question??
Is it conservative? I don't think so. I think it's more an issue of being courteous and respectful. People should have a say in whether or not they care to be a part of your sex (self-sex or otherwise). How do you figure that's it's ok to force that on someone?... And why? Because you feel like jerking off so fuck everyone else and what they want? Your desires are more important than everyone else's? Call me crazy but I think it's my right to be able to go to the gym without having to be exposed to someone's orgasm. I don't think it's a right to be able to jerk off whenever you feel like it... And the law is on my side.It is astonishing how conservative people are here. In a website all about large penises. It's absurd. Like people here can claim to be some kind of saints?
I don't do it often, but I've wanked in private shower cubicles at my gym. So long as nobody sees too much, and you flush the "product" away, I see no real issue. Pressing your body against the frosted glass door would be a no-no but other than that I can't see what would be a problem. Keep the grunting toned down too...
I think doing it in open showers might be an issue. Or walking around with an erection.
But a pre- or post- shower chubby isn't much of an issue.
I'm not far from London. Maybe I could "spot" for you some time?
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Is it conservative? I don't think so. I think it's more an issue of being courteous and respectful...
Not necessarily disagreeing, but just for the sake of discussion, of course you shouldn't have anything forced upon you, but are we really that uncomfortable with male sexuality in a single-sex, adult setting? I've seen straight couples fooling around on nude beaches and it really didn't traumatize me. Should we relax a bit about erections and masturbation in some settings?
Not necessarily disagreeing, but just for the sake of discussion, of course you shouldn't have anything forced upon you, but are we really that uncomfortable with male sexuality in a single-sex, adult setting? I've seen straight couples fooling around on nude beaches and it really didn't traumatize me. Should we relax a bit about erections and masturbation in some settings?
True, you could argue it's comparing apples and oranges, I guess my point is just a general one about the grey areas of sexuality in all male, adult settings. You're right that I'm probably straying too far and it's a discussion that deserves its own thread.You're talking about examples of situations where men were housed for extended periods of time under conditions where they had little to no privacy. How does that apply to a modern day, civilian, gym situation? I guess if you're just interested in discussing societal acceptance/opinions of male masturbation... Fine... But that's not really relevant to this thread, is it?
Well, I do believe there's more than a few people in your state who would consider you "messed up" for the simple fact of your orientation.I agree with SoCal; self control is a very important skill for one to possess. I am also a firm believer in a little adage called "Time and Place". I am no proponent of public personal displays of affection, whether alone or with a partner.
But damn, thinking that there is some type of politeness/etiquette that would somehow mitigate doing something at the gym you shouldn't be doing at the gym is messed up.
Not just in my "state"! lolWell, I do believe there's more than a few people in your state who would consider you "messed up" for the simple fact of your orientation.
As far as it being a gray area… It's not really gray. This is all pretty simple, really. If someone reported you to the gym or the police for jerking off in the shower… Would you get in trouble? Yes or no? There you go. End of story.
The answer is actually "it depends". People seem to be referring to or picturing different situations in this thread and they aren't the same. One situation is masturbating in a private shower stall with a door/curtain. The other is masturbating in an open shower or locker area. If you're simply masturbating in a private shower and the only way someone would know/report you is if they were spying on you by looking over a partition wall or something, you would not get in trouble. The person spying on you and invading your privacy would be a bigger issue. If you're masturbating in a private shower but making sounds or something like that, the police likely aren't going to do anything but gym management will probably say something. If you're masturbating in the open, that's gym management and the police.
I don't necessarily agree.The answer is actually "it depends". People seem to be referring to or picturing different situations in this thread and they aren't the same. One situation is masturbating in a private shower stall with a door/curtain. The other is masturbating in an open shower or locker area. If you're simply masturbating in a private shower and the only way someone would know/report you is if they were spying on you by looking over a partition wall or something, you would not get in trouble. The person spying on you and invading your privacy would be a bigger issue. If you're masturbating in a private shower but making sounds or something like that, the police likely aren't going to do anything but gym management will probably say something. If you're masturbating in the open, that's gym management and the police.
For those of you being werided out by this, you might want to frame this in some actually scientific context.
After a heavy gym workout, hormone levels tend to increase especially the hormones testosterone and the many types of endorphins. With the endorphins functioning to bind with opiate receptors that are found mainly in the brain, it means after a heavy workout, they make you feel great and more often then not, combine to leave a guy feeling very frisky and horny after a workout.
The principal function of endorphins you have to remember, is to inhibit the transmission of pain signals (hence why your body is producing them after a strenuous workout in the first place) but the side effect of that is that of the short term feeling of euphoria (and the subsequent altered mental state as well).
The effect's duration varies from individual to individual, but no doubt londonDood notices the effects after the gym workout. I can't blame him for wanting to indulge on what his body's hormones are influencing him to do and the euphoria is influencing his judgement a bit as well.
If the stalls are private enough, then I would imagine he should be careful and weight out his pros and cons, before he decides to have a wank next time. If he gets arrested or into trouble well, you could always just site the scientific literature lol.... but yeah be careful londonDood![]()