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How do you feel about seeing big bulges in public?
Granted the person attached is calm and respectable, are bulges acceptable in any situation or are there scenarios where it is unacceptable and effort should be put into concealing a big member?
 

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I realize that in some circumstances a visible bulge is difficult to avoid... But it's not particularly impossible to find something that doesn't "show off" that particular part of the body.

My guy is large. Even flaccid. Sometimes I can see it, but he doesn't intentionally make it visible. He goes out of his way to do the opposite. If he did make it visible intentionally, I would not be attracted to him.

There's a way to make ones self feel attractive/sexy without making actual genitals visible.

For me, it's kinda hard to find pants that don't show my crevasses in detail, but I do go out of my way to find them. That doesn't mean I can't show off my body in other ways, but making my actual genitals visible? Nope. Not cool. Won't do it. No one should imo.
 

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I am not looking at a man’s crotch, so I’m pretty oblivious to what’s happening down there. It’s only when they’re at eye level, like when I’m on the train or something.

If it’s just natural and not something a guy is purposefully doing, it’s not a big deal. (No pun intended.) it’s just a body part like any other. But if a guy is really trying to get noticed? It’s very off-putting.
 
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Before being a member here, I would've been embarrassed for the guy, thinking he didn't realise. After reading lots of posts here by men doing it purposefully I'm actually quite averse to it.

I have a waist, but I also most definitely have hips and an ass. Sometimes pants that fit my waist look like they are cutting me in half. Same with some styles that are supposed to ride low. So... I buy something else not nearly so revealing.

In private is a completely different matter. Lazing around the house commando with just his sweats on? Bulge away, I'm a willing and appreciative audience
 
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I'd feel the same as women who show too much cleavage*... I wouldn't want to be known for my tits or any other body part that is sexualized. If what you're advertising is a bulge, you're not for me. If you're the right guy for me, I'm going to be happy with a bulge or lack of bulge.

Plus there's the whole grower vs. shower thing. You don't always know what you're gonna get until it's hard. And if you're hard in public, you're DEFINITELY not the guy for me.

*If you're one who likes to show off your goods, good for you! I'm happy for you being happy. Really. It's just not for me. Ditto for muscular-ish guys wearing shirts that are a little too tight for my liking. Girls who laugh a little too loud in a bar. Guys who blare their radios too loud. Etc. etc. etc. Obviously trying to get attention is weak sauce. Yes, anything "too" is subjective, but this is an opinion topic. Mine isn't any more/less valid that anyone else's.
 

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I’m with the other ladies in this, and to back up what lurker23 said, you never know if a guy is a grower or a shower so a grower runs the risk of everyone thinking it’s hard and then it’s really creepy.
 
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Like LaFemme, I dress down to hide my chest and curves to minimize unsolicited attention. And expect a man to do the same. If he wants to stand a chance.
Even if he is a shower, he can dress in concealment. I have seen hung guys wearing baggy shorts at the beach and pull their shorts to avoid the wet cling after they come out of the water. That gets my attention in the person. Not a body part with which he had nothing to do during gene selection.
From a pragmatists point of view; what can someone gain from showing a bulge? A few silent wows, maybe catch some glances. That's the satisfaction? Great to know someone can be satisfied with so little. That is the gain though. So little. Pathetic.
 

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I don't dress to hide my curves. It makes me look fat. I do make sure my undergarments are concealed, neither making lines, nor peeking out of collars or hems, and I don't allow details of my fleshy, shapely vulva to be accentuated by my pants. There is a difference between wearing clothes that fit and flatter, and waving genitals in my face. Don't do the latter.