Showing it off at the mens room urinals?
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If I see the guy next to me is looking, I move back. Why not let him have a good view?
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sounds like a good social experiment- all the LPSG board guys make a plan to step back the next time you're at a public urinal to increase the social joy in the male bonding world! 
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well a guy has to know how to pick up the social cues correctly to know both "when to look" as well as "when to step back" so that it's a win/win and not an invitation to take a ride to the local pokey
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Definately look? maybe yes, maybe no.
If two urinals are squeezed into a side-by-side configuration where the porcelain is within 8-10", that puts two guys closer to each other- partition or not- and yeah you can get away with a peek. However, if you walk up to a row of 8-10 urinals on a wall (again, partitions or not) the appropriate "social rule" is to leave at least one urinal open between users- and this distance (or greater) means you can't use peripheral vision, you have to turn your head. Depending on the event- this may or MAY NOT be a welcome move (or very wise.) A wild sports bar where all the guys are pissing like race horses and talking pussy at the trough is very different than standing at a row of urinals at a convention center during a white collar seminar with colleagues.
Again, I think if something happened in pop culture than just outright acknowledged this behavior it would be more accepted. Think about how our social mores can be shaped by some hollywood actor douche doing something (big or small) and how all the teenagers pick up on it. James Dean motivated men to wear wife beater undershirts. Marky Mark Wahlberg made boxer briefs sexy. Even this year's big movie.. FROZEN.. outs the fact that all men pick their nose when they're alone and can get away with it.
If a tv show, or movie made a joke about guys eying the competition at public urinals it would no longer be a George Michael moment. That, or I guess we all need to do our part to change the culture of the mens room: break the social norm and walk right up to another guy and take the spot RIGHT NEXT TO HIM. Chat him up. Look him in the eye, smile, look down, then back up, and smile during the shake. No shame. Bonus points for two buddies who drop their pants to their ankles and stand bare ass at the white target - just to mess with dudes
If two urinals are squeezed into a side-by-side configuration where the porcelain is within 8-10", that puts two guys closer to each other- partition or not- and yeah you can get away with a peek. However, if you walk up to a row of 8-10 urinals on a wall (again, partitions or not) the appropriate "social rule" is to leave at least one urinal open between users- and this distance (or greater) means you can't use peripheral vision, you have to turn your head. Depending on the event- this may or MAY NOT be a welcome move (or very wise.) A wild sports bar where all the guys are pissing like race horses and talking pussy at the trough is very different than standing at a row of urinals at a convention center during a white collar seminar with colleagues.
Again, I think if something happened in pop culture than just outright acknowledged this behavior it would be more accepted. Think about how our social mores can be shaped by some hollywood actor douche doing something (big or small) and how all the teenagers pick up on it. James Dean motivated men to wear wife beater undershirts. Marky Mark Wahlberg made boxer briefs sexy. Even this year's big movie.. FROZEN.. outs the fact that all men pick their nose when they're alone and can get away with it.
If a tv show, or movie made a joke about guys eying the competition at public urinals it would no longer be a George Michael moment. That, or I guess we all need to do our part to change the culture of the mens room: break the social norm and walk right up to another guy and take the spot RIGHT NEXT TO HIM. Chat him up. Look him in the eye, smile, look down, then back up, and smile during the shake. No shame. Bonus points for two buddies who drop their pants to their ankles and stand bare ass at the white target - just to mess with dudes
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Celtic guy, I like the way you think! I agree. If they want to look, why not give them a real show??
Yes it was staged.
It doesn't take much in the way of balls to be the 2nd guy who sees the other guy stroking himself and decides to approach. If a guy is stroking himself at a urinal like that, you can probably assume they're fine with public activity. It does take balls to piss with a semi and start stroking, when you don't know how other guys might react.
It doesn't take much in the way of balls to be the 2nd guy who sees the other guy stroking himself and decides to approach. If a guy is stroking himself at a urinal like that, you can probably assume they're fine with public activity. It does take balls to piss with a semi and start stroking, when you don't know how other guys might react.
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Someone may have already said this after 80 pages, but if you want to give people an opportunity to see what you've got without being overbearing about it, just turn away from the urinal before you tuck it back in your pants.
