I have only showed it in pictures and no one has seen in real life. I would like to know some ideas about how to show in real life whether it is accidentally or on purpose. Chat rooms, web cams, pics... That's all I have done so far. I only want women to see, yeah it might be nice for men to see too but I'm not real excited about that. One last question, is it okay to go in the sauna without clothes? Is that gay, or indecent? What do you think?