Showing nudes of girls to mates

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Alright lads,

when I was younger it was common to show pics and vids we got of girls when texting them. Showing off and showing mates how fit they were or what their tits look like. Some lads even showed sex tapes of the girls sucking them or them fucking.
Was this common in other friendships groups. Do you still do it with wives/girlfriends?
 
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I can see that happening when a teenager or a young adult is immature. Now, sending a file in which you can recognize the other person is inexcusable in all ages. If you were a baby you would deserve a punch on the face.
 

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Seems I'm in the minority, but yes. My friends and I showed each other hot girls we were talking to. Never any pictures of them getting sucked or anything like that. I've seen their dicks anyway, but pics were of their tits and pussy. Only time we all didn't do this is if we really liked the girl and thought of them as girlfriend material.

In my experiences of my friends who were girls, some also shared with their girlfriends guys who sent dick pics.
 
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When I was young cell phones hadn't been invented yet. So, no. No, I hadn't.
It's an invasion. If a friend of mine would've shown me pics/vids like that I probably would've thought, 'what an asshole.'
 
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By the time personal digital media was a thing, I was already an old fart. I'm of the opinion that the Internet never forgets, and that sharing compromising content is unwise, and can, and will, come back and bite you in the ass.
 

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I sent a dude a video I made for him and he posted it on a porn site with my name. I didn’t find it till six months later when I was googling something for work and it had already been viewed and downloaded 250 times. :(
 

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First of all, since I got married young and before there were smartphones (or even digital or portable video cameras), the only nude photos I ever had of a woman I personally knew was of my wife. While many years later I began posting some of her online, it was always anonymous and always with her permission as it turned out to be something she enjoyed as receiving positive comments from other men helped with her bodily insecurity issues. I never showed any of her pics to any friends or people I knew and would not do so without her permission and even then, I can't think of any vanilla friends or associates I would have ever felt comfortable with even doing so, as we are both very private with people in real-life and project the appearance of a sexually boring couple :laughing: .

As several people have stated, showing off pictures of someone without their permission and especially for the sole purpose of bragging about women one has had, is a dickish thing to do and obviously one of the unfortunately fall-outs of a sexting, cellphone obsessed generation.
 
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Alright lads,

when I was younger it was common to show pics and vids we got of girls when texting them. Showing off and showing mates how fit they were or what their tits look like. Some lads even showed sex tapes of the girls sucking them or them fucking.
Was this common in other friendships groups. Do you still do it with wives/girlfriends?
What's really going to bake your noodle later on is: were they real woman or someone pretending to be one in exchange of your material?
Any way at most a friend showed to me a regular picture pointing this one on the right.
 
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Alright lads,

when I was younger it was common to show pics and vids we got of girls when texting them. Showing off and showing mates how fit they were or what their tits look like. Some lads even showed sex tapes of the girls sucking them or them fucking.
Was this common in other friendships groups. Do you still do it with wives/girlfriends?
That is totally a no-no.

Never, ever, do that without consent.

In my group of friends, even if someone starts talking too much about how hot is this or that girl, we stop him.
 
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Alright lads,

when I was younger it was common to show pics and vids we got of girls when texting them. Showing off and showing mates how fit they were or what their tits look like. Some lads even showed sex tapes of the girls sucking them or them fucking.
Was this common in other friendships groups. Do you still do it with wives/girlfriends?
Yes...to my best friends.