Showing Off In Public - Sexy And Just A Little Bit Slutty

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I find nothing more erotic than a woman that is showing off a little more skin than expected but not crossing that outright slutty line. Curious as to why women don't wear clothes that give a little down blouse peek or legs spread a little extra with a skirt on when they are out on the town.
 

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I find nothing more erotic than a woman that is showing off a little more skin than expected but not crossing that outright slutty line. Curious as to why women don't wear clothes that give a little down blouse peek or legs spread a little extra with a skirt on when they are out on the town.
Because it's dangerous .
Because I'm not an object.
Because I don't want to to interact with every horny random on the street.
Because I'm busy with my own agenda.
For your safety. Because, you see, if I feel unsafe, and can't see a path to safety, I'm guaranteed to do something violent.
 

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Specifically because of guys like you.

That's why I don't "show off" a little in my everyday life.

The "slutty line"? Jesus Christ that's fucking rude.
Yeah, I kept thinking to myself, "What the fuck is the slutty line?" First of all, a slut is just a woman who won't give the slut shamer the exact behavior he or she wants. And then, he wants her to be deliberately showing the world what's down her blouse and up her skirt, regardless of whether or not her agenda involves a family-friendly environment later, or her new boyfriend's great-aunties, just put it all right the fuck out there, on purpose, but not like in a slutty way or anything. What is THAT? What fresh hell of an impossible standard is that?!
 

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The "slutty line"? Jesus Christ that's fucking rude.
I agree with more questions.
What is a slut?
Where is that line? Is it thick or is it thin?
Is it red?
Who draws it?

I do not consider myself as a slut but I am flirty. Daring about time and places for the taboo or forbidden. I can't go to the supermarket without being noticed because of the "girls". So, I dress baggy but hate doing something because of the general public or others. Then I let them free on occasion.
That may be great for the eyes of others but it does nothing for me. There goes the pragmatic angle out of the window, too.

Now, OP, tell me. Where is that line? On the floor or in your mind(s)? Bah.
 
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I learned the hard way in school that "being attractive" often attracts the worst.
 
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I dress for myself, not others. If my cleavage is showing in an obvious manner and I catch some person staring, then I'm probably going to be mortified. Threatened if it's a guy who looks like he might make a move because he likes what he sees. Like many women, I've been the target of way too many unwanted advances for this to be even REMOTELY sexy.
 

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I understand that most men are visual creatures, and it’s certainly something a woman can use to her advantage to treat the man of her choice - but it has to be her choice.

As the ladies have pointed out, most of us dress to please ourselves, to feel good about ourselves and not to arouse someone else. It’s dangerous to do so. If one of us was attacked while “spreading” our legs, or giving “peeks” down our cleavage, how do you think that would go down in court? It may not be a thought at the front of a woman’s mind, but it floats around in there somewhere. “Am I asking for it?” It’s a dirty, horrible lie, but every woman who has been violated has been blamed, and subsequently wondered, even briefly if it was true.

You should absolutely enjoy the beauty that is woman. But do not wonder why we don’t dress more erotically. And take the word “slut” out of your vocabulary. There is no such thing. It’s only insulting to the user, not the target.
 

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If one of us was attacked while “spreading” our legs, or giving “peeks” down our cleavage, how do you think that would go down in court? It may not be a thought at the front of a woman’s mind, but it floats around in there somewhere. “Am I asking for it?” It’s a dirty, horrible lie, but every woman who has been violated has been blamed, and subsequently wondered, even briefly if it was true.
That sh*t plays even in Canada? I am so disappointed. Jesus.

And take the word “slut” out of your vocabulary. There is no such thing. It’s only insulting to the user, not the target.
I humbly bow in front of this wisdom.
 

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I am very pale. The reflective glare of the sun on my bare skin could blind innocent bystanders.

I don't want Yahoo's starting at my yahboes. 90% I am unaware that my arrangement of body part are attractive to men. 10% of the some random lack of manners reminds me that being desirable makes me less if a person.

I dress for me. I don't follow fashion or trends. I put on my body what makes my body happy. Usually jeans and a t-shirt and cons. I literally dress like a 10 year old boy and a subsection of men will still stare, comment or approach me.

Ew.
 

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I find nothing more erotic than a woman that is showing off a little more skin than expected but not crossing that outright slutty line.
WTF does that even mean?
Is there a Skin Showing Guide I’m unaware of? Expectations of how much of my fish belly white skin must be exposed to radiation? I’m from a culture where clavicles and elbows are to be covered, so I don’t know a thing about this SexObject Survival Guide. Is it on YouTube?
Is there a gentleman’s version? Will it stop plumbers crack? Or prison sagging?

Curious as to why women don't wear clothes that give a little down blouse peek or legs spread a little extra with a skirt on when they are out on the town.
Because of entitled dipshits like you. And I just insulted shit.

Will I wear what I know my guy appreciates? Yes, within reason.
Am I dressing for any oxygen consumer on the street. Fuck to the No.
 
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I find nothing more erotic than a woman that is showing off a little more skin than expected but not crossing that outright slutty line. Curious as to why women don't wear clothes that give a little down blouse peek or legs spread a little extra with a skirt on when they are out on the town.

I just noticed "when they are out on the town" in the above. Does that mean "with a man" at a Party or Club or something? I'm not comfortable with that either, but apparently many men like to show off how sexy their woman is. Some women appear to like be shown off that way too. I'm really stretching here.
 
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I just noticed "when they are out on the town" in the above. Does that mean "with a man" at a Party or Club or something? I'm not comfortable with that either, but apparently many men like to show off how sexy their woman is. Some women appear to like be shown off that way too. I'm really stretching here.
That was stretching it. Good on ya for trying to make it work! :)

I took it to mean when the sex object leaves the confines of home walls.

These sort of dudes make me go ultra modest.

Yeah, me too. I just don’t like random ogling me like meat.
 

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I just noticed "when they are out on the town" in the above. Does that mean "with a man" at a Party or Club or something? I'm not comfortable with that either, but apparently many men like to show off how sexy their woman is. Some women appear to like be shown off that way too. I'm really stretching here.

When does that get into subjecting others to your kinks, ethically?
Just musing...