I figured I should ask on this site since I wager people here have had some experience with this (more than I do). Anyway, I came to seek advice on this matter. I have dated a couple times in the past. There were times when I have been close to them (emotionally). The thing is as soon as I feel that or feel any sort of love from them I want to pull away and leave the relationship, cutting any ties with them. The feeling starts with unease and then builds to dread. I know this can't be normal, but telling myself to just get over has not worked at all. I don't want to continue like this though, shredding the emotions of others for an unknow reason. Its sickening to think about it. I'm hesitating about seeing another guy for fear that the cycle will repeat again. Is there a way to break this?