Shrinking Question

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by anono, Aug 11, 2006.

  1. anono

    anono New Member

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    Hello.

    I'm not quite sure what to make of this site.
    Kinda wierd, not in a bad way, just surprised it exists I guess.

    Anyways, I came across this site a few days ago and though it might be an good place to seek some help.

    I hope this isn't terribly out of the scope of this forum, while browsing this site I did find a couple links to other sites (thunderpalace and emasurection) and maybe this question would be more suited there.

    Anyways, here's my deal. Once I finished growing, I had an above-average sized penis, I'd say it was 7 and three quarters long depending on the erection, maybe a bit bigger when flexed it. I have no idea about girth cause I never meassured it that way, but it was/is relativly thin.


    So, long story short, a couple years ago, for lack of a better term, a bunch of shit happened in my life, school trouble that ended with me dropping out, money and job stuff, a long-drawn out breakup of a long term relationship etc etc. Anyways, I got quite stressed then very depressed and was depressed for a good while (like a year at least).

    During this time sex was of no interest to me, and I never really got 'normal' 'throughout the day' type erections, I jerked off less and when I did, jerk off and stuff I only really did it out of routine, and when I did it I did it pretty "soft".

    So as I got out of my 'funk', I starter getting hard ons again, but they were a lot smaller, and sometimes they felt almost painful, like my dick was tied back. Now I'm better than I was, but my dick now when fully erect is only like 6 1/2 to maybe 6/3/4 inches long. It's really bothering me.

    I know that it's not all that important, but I think it shows thats something was wrong with me and i'm worried it will keep shrinking.
    Plus, it was one of my only real above average feature, I'm way too thin and not buff at all, I'm super shy and have trouble talking to people.
    It's not like I was at all confident before, but it was a little easier (like knowing girls would be impressed and stuff).
    Besides this I'm in pretty good health, no real problems. Don't know ifit matters but I have a tiny birth mark thingy on my (penis) head, and my parents didn't have me circumcised.

    I've done some interent searching, but found lots of BS and penis enlargement ads, one site looked kinda real, and the guy on it had a bit daying if you don;t use your dick it shrinks, but I don't trust it 100% because he was selling herbal viagra stuff.
    As you can imagine, it's sorta a hard thing to talk about or get help with.

    Sorry to make the long post, and if I'm barking up the wrong tree here sorry.
    just wondering if anyone here's experienced this, or if you'd hear of this or if it was common.

    Sorry to ask such a long crazy question, and sorry if this isn't shit you cover here. I felt really weird writing it and spilling my guts to strangers, but I've kinda been lurking and reading some posts here the past couple days and that lulled me into a (false?) sense of security.
    Anyways, sorry about the dumb question.
     
  2. dongalong

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    You can ask anything here since you are anonymous no-one will judge you!

    I think that what has happened to you is the same reason that Penis enlargement pills can claim such big size increases.

    It sounds like you are a bit run down and you haven't flexed your penis to its maximum very often so it has become a bit rigid in the same way that tendons in your legs can become without regular stretching. They are made from similar stuff as the tunica which surrounds the erectile tissue in your penis.

    I don't recommend buying penis pills because they are very expensive but you can buy supplements that improve your blood circulation which will be just as good e.g. ginkgo biloba, panax ginseng etc. These will help you stretch back to your maximum size. Doing PE exercises too will probably speed things up and even make you bigger than before. Since you were already bigger, growth will probably happen quickly then as you pass your original maximum size it will slow down. Think long term, give yourself 6 months to return back to normal and a year to get the girth you want That way your expectations won't be too high and you shouldn't be disappointed.

    Don't worry about the birthmark, most girls are quite accepting since they probably also have some flaw that they are worried about, no-one is perfect!
     
  3. Pirate Wench

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    Sounds like one of those "if you don't use it, you lose it"....things.

    But this one's evidently reversible......you can get it back.

    Are you, or were you, on anti-depressants ?
    Those can diminish libido while on them.

    Glad you're feeling better now.

    Depression sucks.
     
  4. basque9

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    There are no dumb questions anono... I will let you in on a secret though..there are a lot of bum answers around!

    I want to tell you another little secret: a large percentage of men who enter their golden decades, say beginning around 60, go into a sexual funk similar to what you describe and some mild depression sets in and you know what?
    The head of their penis stops filling up with blood and then horrors, part of the shaft goes softer and smaller too! Their prize specimen erections dwindle in size from 7.75 inches to 6.5 on a good day. What do they do? They fret and moan and do nothing to reallly deal with the problem. The cause may well be psychological, partly due to depression but whatever, it can only lead to more depression and more heartache.

    I began to experience this problem at about age 60, I am now 73. The large head of my cock was half its original size and on a good day my length was down to only 8 and my girth maybe down to only 6. All of this loss happened in just a few years.

    I researched everything I could find and determined that if there were a chance to rejuvenate the flow of blood into my cock it would most likely happen if I exercized my cock in some way just as I do my body by swimming.

    I studied jelquing and began to practice massaging my cock using this methodology about that time and voila. My cock very rapidly resumed filling itself completely. Jelquing is a simple,harmless, logical, natural way of introducing more blood more often into the penis. Now at 73, I actually have a slightly larger erect and flaccid cock than before I began jelquing. It now tops out slightly over 9 x 7.25. I totally credit this technique for having put my sexlife and sexual prowess back on track bigtime! A little side bonus which came along from the jelquing is that it restored the ability of my prostate and testis to produce ejaculate bigtime as well. I think of jelquing as the miracle
    method to tune up the penis and associated equipment!

    I offer it only as something to think about and decide for yourself. Oftentimes any action is better than none at all! My very best wishes to you for a renewed sexual outlook!:smile:
     
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  5. snowflake

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    for donkeyboy9,

    Tell me more about jelquing. What is this about and how is it done? At 73 with a 9 incher you're a monster cocksman. Please forward the information to me at: swmprat61@hotmail.com. I'm 68 y.o. at 7"x 5 3/4 ". I would especially like more girth. I think my length is satisfactory to give pleasure without pain.
     
  6. basque9

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    I will be happy to respond to you privately, asap snowflake... just as I already have done for several others wanting similar information! Oh yes, thank you for referring to my sexuality in such flattering terms! I have been equally successful in turning my entire body and physical appearance back in time about 30 years through a regimen involving diet, healthy lifestyle, and swimming and exercising every single day! Aging need not be a death sentence, nor the end to being hung , sexy and fit!
     
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