I think your bush is trimmed just right in the pics... I personally only like my bush trimmed close like yours...not shaved bald....then you'll look like a pre-pubescent boy....unless she's into that...lol. Balls on the other hand, I like my balls to be totally hairless, so I do shave them bald. They feel so much softer when shaved...that's probably the bigger concern of your gf...your ball hair, not your bush.